1718 || generational shame || book club

1718 || generational shame || book club

We can't heal what we don't feel.


Unfortunately, one of the greatest powers of toxic shame is that it creates automatic, unconscious defenses: like Idealization, repression, denial, dissociation.


So most people don't heal this shame and end up passing it down to their children, through hierarchal power structures, coercion, and denial.


Dysfunctional Family Rules: Chaos or Control, Perfectionism or Anomie, Blame self or others, Denial of freedoms,


John Bradshaw's website.

Buy the book, Healing the Shame that Binds You

Read the TOXIC SHAME article from Very Well Mind.


Read Julie's Medium Blog.

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1735 || somatic exercise

1735 || somatic exercise

Somatic Experiencing is a therapy that focuses on the mind-body connection to help alleviate trauma-related tension stored in the body.https://positivepsychology.com/somatic-experiencing/https://www.c...

10 Huhti 10min

1734 || escaping a shame spiral

1734 || escaping a shame spiral

You can't outrun 'em, but you can revise your interpretation and your response, and that’s not for nothin’.Access today's episode on Julie's Medium Blog.Shame spirals, or negative feedback loops are c...

9 Huhti 11min

1733 || healthy shame is not a threat

1733 || healthy shame is not a threat

It’s not about eliminating all sources of shame, but aligning with the confidence that you’re able to handle it effectively. In the book, Healing the Shame that Binds You by John Bradshaw, he compares...

8 Huhti 10min

1732 || authenticity is a practice, not a discovery || heal the shame that binds you

1732 || authenticity is a practice, not a discovery || heal the shame that binds you

you're not "finding" an authentic self, but rather, practicing ease and comfort when you feel it. "as soon as she touches the water, she is immediately transformed into the most graceful creature." fi...

7 Huhti 10min

1731 || love yourself unconditionally || heal the shame that binds you

1731 || love yourself unconditionally || heal the shame that binds you

dealing with rejection can feel impossible for people with internalized, toxic shame. there are rarely absolutes. life exists mostly in the gray area. not all good and not all bad.people will go to ex...

6 Huhti 10min

1730 || decenter your mistakes || heal the shame that binds

1730 || decenter your mistakes || heal the shame that binds

When you make a mistake and feel vulnerable, the best response is to acknowledge and repair. Don't harbor more shame. The mistakes are inevitable. You highlighting them makes the mistake seem like som...

4 Huhti 10min

1729 || making mistakes doesn't mean you are one

1729 || making mistakes doesn't mean you are one

stop being so hard on yourself!! YOU ARE NOT YOUR MISTAKES. Mistakes are simply feedback. Listen, take responsibility when needed, and adapt!!!! It's all part of the process. John Bradshaw's website.B...

3 Huhti 10min

1728 || positive brainwashing || healing the shame that binds you

1728 || positive brainwashing || healing the shame that binds you

You really are worth it. There has never been anyone like you. Nor will there ever be anyone like you again. You are unique, unrepeatable and of precious worth. - John Bradshaw John Bradshaw's website...

2 Huhti 11min

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