016: Ask David — How can I cope with a complainer? How can I help a loved one who is depressed?

016: Ask David — How can I cope with a complainer? How can I help a loved one who is depressed?

How can you help a depressed friend or family member? You may be surprised to discover that the attempt to "help" is rarely effective, and may even make the problem worse. In contrast, the refusal to help is nearly always helpful. But to understand that paradox, you'll have to give a listen to this fascinating edition of "Ask David!"

David and Fabrice also address a related problem nearly all of us confront from time to time: How do you deal with a friend who is a relentless whiner and complainer? When you try to help them or suggest a solution to the problem, they just say, "That won't work" and keep complaining. You end up feeling frustrated and annoyed, because the other person just won't listen! David and Fabrice illustrate a shockingly easy and incredibly effective solution to this problem.

Finally, David discusses some disturbing recent research indicating that the ability of therapists—as well as friends or family members—to know how suicidal someone is, is extremely poor. David and Fabrice explain how to assess how suicidal someone actually is, and what to do if you discover that he or she really is at risk of a suicide attempt.

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119: Self-Defeating Beliefs (Part 2) — Can You Change Them?

119: Self-Defeating Beliefs (Part 2) — Can You Change Them?

How can you get rid of Self-Defeating Beliefs? Although any of the 100 + TEAM-CBT methods can be used to modify an SDB, four methods will be highlighted in today's show. Cost-Benefit Analysis Semant...

17 Joulu 201852min

118: Self-Defeating Beliefs (Part 1) — The Beliefs That Defeat You

118: Self-Defeating Beliefs (Part 1) — The Beliefs That Defeat You

Rajesh asked: Is it possible to change an SDB? Does the mere knowledge of an SDB change it? How long does it take to change an SDB? How do you change SDBs? Nikola asked: Aaron Beck said the SDBs ne...

10 Joulu 201834min

117: Stephanie James Interview (Part 3) — The Trifecta of Feeling Terrific

117: Stephanie James Interview (Part 3) — The Trifecta of Feeling Terrific

I recently did two terrific interviews (Podcasts #92 and #111) with Stephanie James on her superb radio show and podcast, The Spark. Today, Fabrice and I are bringing you my third and final interview ...

3 Joulu 20181h 35min

116: Spirituality and Psychotherapy: Contradictory or Complementary? with Mike Christensen

116: Spirituality and Psychotherapy: Contradictory or Complementary? with Mike Christensen

This dynamic interview covers the integration of TEAM-CBT with Christianity as well as Judaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, the Muslim faith, and more. Mike, Fabrice and I describe many areas of overlap, as w...

26 Marras 20181h 7min

115: Healing Addiction with Stephen Pfleiderer

115: Healing Addiction with Stephen Pfleiderer

Fabrice and I were thrilled to interview our dear friend and colleague, Stephen Pfleiderer, who is the first therapist in the world using TEAM-CBT techniques in the treatment of habits and addictions,...

19 Marras 201843min

114: The Upgrade Interview — How to Change Your Perspective

114: The Upgrade Interview — How to Change Your Perspective

Rebroadcast of a fabulous interview David did recently for "The Upgrade" Podcast (sponsored by the popular Life Hacker website with hosts Melissa Kirsch and Alice Bradley on a range of topics, includi...

12 Marras 201822min

113: Ask David — How Can I Overcome My Perfectionism?

113: Ask David — How Can I Overcome My Perfectionism?

1. Steven asks about the best route to take if you want to learn and practice TEAM-CBT? Is the degree important? What's the best degree? Should you go to school to become a psychologist, clinical soc...

5 Marras 201838min

112: Truth-Based Techniques

112: Truth-Based Techniques

One of the goals for our Feeling Good Podcasts is to bring the TEAM-CBT techniques to life for mental health professionals, patients, and the general public as well. I (David Burns) use more than 50 T...

29 Loka 201836min

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