
The Female Sex Scene We Never Thought We'd See
In a recent tweet, Bettina Arndt shared a poster from Griffith University’s dating manual which highlights a person’s right to say no to sex. In her words, she claimed that the manual encourages women to be “uncaring demanding bitches”. Despite her undisputed anti-feminist sentiment, the tweet made us ask, is Griffith University’s dating manual more partial towards women? Also, vulvas and orgasms on Gwyneth Paltrow’s third episode of the Netflix series ‘the goop lab’ has got us all wondering, is female sexuality witnessing a big cultural moment? Plus, our Quicky producer Melanie Tait tweeted a post asking, is it silly to gift a mum a facial or massage without organising for someone to look after her kids? We discuss. LINKS Episode 3 of Netflix’s ‘the goop lab with Gwenyth Paltrow’... https://www.netflix.com/au/title/80244690 The article ‘NSFW: Ellie took 50 photos of women's vulvas. This is what she saw.’ on Mamamia’s website… https://mamamia.com.au/what-does-a-vagina-look-like/ ‘The Range of Vulva Styles from Sex for One’ article on Betty Dodson’s website … https://dodsonandross.com/blogs/carlin/2010/05/bettys-vulva-illustrations The Quicky’s episode ‘The Great Hunt For The Mysterious G-Spot’... https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-quicky/the-great-hunt-for-the-mysterious-g-s-pot/ Rebecca Woolf on Instagram… https://www.instagram.com/rebeccawooolf/?hl=en RECOS Jessie- Cheer on Netflix… https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81039393 And Mamamia’s Recap podcast episodes on Married At First Sight… https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/mamamia-recaps/ Mia- Lady Startup courses… https://www.ladystartup.com/courses/activation-plan Holly- Ere Perez’s vanilla highlighter… https://www.ereperez.com/product/vanilla-highlighter/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386 Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia- https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14 Helmi 202038min

Weinstein’s Lawyer Just Told Us What She Really Thinks
Not surprisingly, the ratings for this year’s Academy Awards were at an all-time low. Joaquin Phoenix’s veganism speech felt a tad bit preachy to some and we’re asking, why is it that almost every Oscar acceptance speech has to adopt some sort of a political or ‘woke’ tone to make it memorable? Also, more than 90 women have accused Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein of sexual assault. Donna Rotunno is Harvey’s female defense lawyer and her interview with the New York Times's Meghan Toohey has got everyone (including us) talking. What lies in the mind of Weinstein’s female defender? Plus, an ad was banned from screening during the Oscars that showed the reality of what happens to a woman’s body after she has a baby. Was it really all that shocking? We discuss. LINKS Subscribe to Mamamia’s newsletters…. https://www.mamamia.com.au/newsletter/ The Daily podcast episode ‘The Woman Defending Harvey Weinstein’… https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-woman-defending-harvey-weinstein/id1200361736?i=1000464899201 The Frida Mom Ad… https://youtu.be/3GePXGfRP04 Eligible Podcast. Email podcast@mamamia.com.au for applications and nominations… https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/eligible/coming-soon-eligible/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia- https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/ Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12 Helmi 202039min

Taylor Swift And The "Annoying Woman" Syndrome
Swifties are buzzing because Taylor Swift’s documentary ‘Miss Americana’ is now out but her haters have called it a contrived attempt to self-victimise. So we’re wondering, what is the “annoying woman syndrome” and does Taylor Swift have it? Also, do you use “as previously discussed” and “I’m balancing a lot this week” when emailing someone at work? If so, you could be considered passive aggressive but do we really know what these phrases mean? Plus, are you an alarm snoozer? Is meditation a part of your morning ritual? What about laying your work clothes out the night before? Jessie, Mia, and Holly talk: morning routines. LINKS Taylor Swift’s Netflix Documentary ‘Miss Americana’...https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81028336 The Spill podcast...https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-spill/ Laura Bodnik’s article ‘The real problem with Taylor Swift's Miss Americana is that it's pretending to be a documentary.’... https://www.mamamia.com.au/taylor-swifts-netflix-documentary/ The Quicky podcast… https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-quicky/ Eligible Podcast. Email podcast@mamamia.com.au for applications and nominations… https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/eligible/coming-soon-eligible/ RECOMMENDATIONS Holly- The movies Jo Jo Rabbit, 1917, and Marriage Story Holly- Mamamia Celebrity newsletter…. https://www.mamamia.com.au/newsletter/ Jessie- ‘Fate and Prediction the Human Mind’ episode of the Podcast ‘All In The Mind’… https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fate-and-predicting-the-human-mind/id73330911?i=1000463671052 Mia- The book ‘Dear Parents’ by Gabbie Stroud… https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/books/other-books/Dear-Parents-Gabbie-Stroud-9781760875268 MMOL LIVE SHOWS Get tickets to our Mamamia Outloud Bushfire Relief Show… https://www.mamamia.com.au/bushfire-relief-live-show/ A Night With Mia Freedman tickets available now at https://www.mamamia.com.au/events/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia- https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/ Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
7 Helmi 202039min

The J. Lo And Shakira Debate That Split The Podcast
Holly’s back so a dip into the royal family is almost inescapable. In a TV interview this week, Meghan Markle’s dad, Thomas Markle, said that he will talk to the media every 30 days until his daughter calls him back. Should media outlets be held accountable for playing a role in fueling family feuds? Also, Richard Di Natale; the doctor turned Greens leader, announced his retirement from politics, saying that he wants to spend more time with his young sons, Luca and Ben, and wife Lucy. So should we worry about how our politician’s schedules impact their lives and families? Plus, the American Superbowl halftime show aired on Sunday and it is full of implicit political messaging, a call for cultural diversity, and booty shaking. But was J. Lo and Shakira’s performance empowering or depressing? LINKS Get Me Pregnant Podcast Hosted by Rachel Corbett and Leigh Campbell… https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/get-me-pregnant/ Get tickets to our Mamamia Outloud Bushfire Relief Show… https://www.mamamia.com.au/bushfire-relief-live-show/ MMOL TOUR DATES A Night With Mia Freedman tickets available now at https://www.mamamia.com.au/events/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia- https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
5 Helmi 202038min

Is Coronavirus Making People Racist?
False information and a sense of hysteria is in the air after nearly 8000 people have been affected by Coronavirus (at the time of the recording of this episode). But is the Coronavirus enabling an anti-Chinese sentiment? Also, with Instagram, Facebook and even TicTok making everyone witness to our outfits of the day, healing journeys, and tedious workout routines, is there such a thing as a “personal life” anymore? Plus, it hasn’t been easy wrapping our head around the complicated legacy of basketball legend Kobe Bryant. At his best, he was a dedicated husband and an active philanthropist but at his worst, he allegedly raped a 19 year old woman back in 2003. How do we navigate the good, the bad and the ugly of a celebrity’s legacy? LINKS Jessie Stephen’s article ‘"I am not a virus." How coronavirus became a petty excuse to be racist.’... https://www.mamamia.com.au/novel-coronavirus/ Hayley Nahman’s article ‘Does Anyone Have a ‘Personal Life’ Anymore?’... https://www.manrepeller.com/2019/12/personal-life.html The Quicky podcast’s episode ‘A Complicated Legacy: Who Was Kobe Bryant?’... https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-quicky/a-complicated-legacy-who-was-kobe-bryant/ Get tickets to our Mamamia Outloud Bushfire Relief Show… https://www.mamamia.com.au/bushfire-relief-live-show/ Jessie Stephen’s article ‘The top 14 Louis Theroux documentaries of all time. Ranked.’... https://www.mamamia.com.au/louis-theroux-documentaries/ RECOS Mia- Why We Can’t Sleep. A book by Ada Calhoun… https://www.amazon.com/Why-We-Cant-Sleep-Midlife/dp/0802147852 Jessie- Chasing Cosby podcast series… https://open.spotify.com/show/6msp9rQSGRiGqJvJj7xrHh Rachel- Louis Theroux’s documentary ‘By Reason of Insanity’... https://www.stan.com.au/watch/louis-theroux-by-reason-of-insanity Safe on Social Toolkit website… https://www.safeonsocial.com/ MMOL TOUR DATES A Night With Mia Freedman tickets available now at https://www.mamamia.com.au/events/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Rachel Corbett and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia- https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31 Tammi 202038min

Kobe Bryant And The Shock Of Sudden Celebrity Deaths
Kobe Bryant, widely considered one of the greatest basketball players of all time, and his 13-year-old daughter Gianna (Gigi), were among nine people killed in a helicopter crash over the weekend and the world is in shock. So why do celebrity deaths affect us so much? And Mia’s recent article on school holidays has gone viral. She thinks the system is broken but what’s the answer when kids are out of school at 3pm and parents have to work till 5pm? Plus, in her new docuseries ‘The Goop Lab with Gwyneth Paltrow’, Gwyneth Paltrow and her Goop team look at psychedelics, energy work and other wellness topics. But are there any parallels to be drawn between Gwenyth Paltrow and pseudoscience advocate Belle Gibson? LINKS Mia’s article ‘We need to talk about how our school holiday system is broken’... https://www.mamamia.com.au/mia-freedman-school-holidays-2020/ Get tickets to our Mamamia Outloud Bushfire Relief Show… https://www.mamamia.com.au/bushfire-relief-live-show/ MMOL TOUR DATES A Night With Mia Freedman tickets available now at https://www.mamamia.com.au/events/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Rachel Corbett and Jessie Stephens Producer: Lem Zakharia CONTACT US Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Via our email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Via our Outlouders Facebook page- https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/mamamiaoutloud/Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29 Tammi 202032min

Three Things Indigenous Australians Want The Government To Do
Hi Outlouders! On Jan 26th we think it's important to reflect on our country's history. Recently on the Mamamia podcast, The Quicky, they looked into The Uluru Statement. And we thought it was such an important episode we had to share it here. Three years ago, nearly 300 people signed a statement to the Australian parliament asking for Indigenous voices be heard in our government, the Uluru Statement from the Heart. It outlines three specific requests. Three years on, what's happening with it? The Quicky asks the question: with so many other countries like Canada and the US already creating treaties like this with their First Nation People, why wouldn't Australia follow suit? CREDITS Host/Producer: Claire Murphy Executive Producer: Melanie Tait Audio Producer: Ian Camilleri Guest: Professor Megan Davis, contributor the Uluru Statement from the Heart, Constitutional Lawyer, Pro Vice Chancellor Indigenous at UNSW. The Quicky is the easiest and most enjoyable way to get across the news every day. Want The Quicky in your ears every day? Subscribe at mamamia.com.au/the-quicky or in your favourite podcast app. Love the show? Send us an email thequicky@mamamia.com.au or call the podphone 02 8999 9386.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25 Tammi 202018min

Influencers In The Wild
Ladies and Gents, Pete Evans is back and he's feeling vindicated after finding a single study that supports (not really if you read the whole thing) some of his bogus beliefs about sunscreen. So, should he think more carefully about what he posts when he's a person of influence? And speaking of influence, an Instagram account has blown up this week that shows exactly what it looks like behind the feed of influencers. So is it funny or creepy? And, Rachel Corbett has been roped into writing a monthly newsletter, dishing out advice so she gets some practice in by trying to solve a listeners dilemma about changing careers later in life. LINKS Want to sign up for Rachel's 'How To Do Life' newsletter? Click here...https://www.mamamia.com.au/newsletter/ Find out if you've got an idea for a business with the Lady Startup Idea Generator... https://www.ladystartup.com/pages/idea-generator Got a business idea and what to make it happen? Sign up for the Lady Startup Activation Plan here... https://www.ladystartup.com/ Listen to The Quicky episode about what it'll take to recover from the Australian bushfires... https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-quicky/what-will-it-take-to-recover-from-the-australian-bushfires/ RECCOS Mia - Everything Is Going To Be Okay on Stan... https://www.stan.com.au/watch/everythings-gonna-be-okay Jessie - Parasite... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SEUXfv87Wpk Rachel - The Bold Type on Stan... https://www.stan.com.au/watch/the-bold-type Mamamia Outloud Bushfire Relief Show... https://mamamia.com.au/events/ CREDITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Rachel Corbett and Jessie Stephens Producer: Elise Cooper CONTACT US Got a topic you'd like us to discuss or a dilemma you'd like us to solve? Email us at outloud@mamamia.com.au or call us on the PodPhone 02 8999 9386. Join the Outlouders Facebook group... https://www.facebook.com/groups/329632330777506/ Looking for other podcasts to listen to? You'll find all our Mamamia shows at https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24 Tammi 202041min





















