How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel "Club 42." From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success We dive into Joanna's fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between. This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for "band guys" and how sexual attraction doesn't always align with our feminist ideals. Key Topics Covered: How stripping transformed Joanna's confidence and sexuality The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure Sexual confidence and embracing your desires The psychology behind attraction to "bad boys" Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives Joanna's refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Joanna's journey from stripper to porn entrepreneur 08:00:00 - How stripping built unshakeable sexual confidence15:00:00 - "Club 42": Choose-your-own-adventure erotica 23:00:00 - The art of authentic dirty talk and sexting 31:00:00 - Moving beyond performative sexuality 38:00:00 - Listener questions and practical advice This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page. Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx ⁠Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ ⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/ ⁠ Let's get social: Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ X ⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily ⁠ Threads https:⁠//www.threads.net/@sexwithemily ⁠ Let's text: Sign up here ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text

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The Tao of Dating

The Tao of Dating

Emily talks with guest Dr. Ali Binazir about his book The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible, do long-distance relationships actually work?, a little known aphrodisiac, why men love sensual women, how to have enlightened self-interest, the pros and cons of online dating, the three "C's" of dating and tips for getting the guy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Loka 201157min

Episode 309 - Hot Sex

Episode 309 - Hot Sex

Emily's co-author Jamye Waxman talks about their book Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight, first masturbation experiences, if you really love someone do you swallow?, pubic hair trends and armpit hair, how to get more foreplay, the two most important things for anal sex, how to touch breasts, taking it slow, men who love the vagina vs. men who don't, threesome etiquette, shower sex and can you teach someone to be a better kisser? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Loka 201157min

Ultimate Guide to O

Ultimate Guide to O

Emily talks with Mikaya Heart, author of The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women, all about orgasms including: being in your body during sex, observing your energy flow to reach orgasm, using a vibrator during intercourse, why goal oriented sex doesn't work, the biggest relationship killer, G-spot orgasms, why shallow sex can be better for women, focusing on your body during sex, the "elusive" orgasm, female ejaculation, mixing up your sexual repertoire, multiple orgasms, and hanging out in the "golden light" after orgasm. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

6 Loka 201155min

Sex Myths

Sex Myths

Why San Francisco is the most sexually promiscuous city, women dressing up as sexy Star Wars characters, sexting ex's, who doesn't?, it's sex toy day at the Sex With Emily office, is a wingwoman better than a wingman?, female erogenous zones you didn't know about, G-spot parties, women who orgasm from nipple play alone, sex myths debunked. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Loka 201158min

Your Brain on Sex

Your Brain on Sex

Emily's new crusade to end the rise of excessive female promiscuity, Menace's crazy Nyquil sex dreams, iPhone apps to save you from scandal, Menace uses Emily's moms financial advice, sex clubs in Seattle, Stanley Siegel, author of "Your Brain on Sex: How Smarter Sex Can Change Your Life", talks about using sex to find "The One", bringing fantasies into relationships, sexual chemistry, and Emily talks about her most recent sexual experience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Loka 20111h 1min

Sucking Smurf Spooge

Sucking Smurf Spooge

Guest Cunning Minx (polyweekly.com) talks about polyamory, 'sucking smurf spooge', is polyamory that much different than dating?, why porn is good for your relationship, why geeks are into polyamory, gun and fire arm play in bed, how to overcome jealously, licking vs. touching and should you put his penis in a cage? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Loka 201157min

Episode 304 - Why He Disappeared

Episode 304 - Why He Disappeared

Emily gets analyzed by dating coach Evan Marc Katz. Evan answers the top questions women have about dating: why he didn't call you back, why he disappeared, and why we date the wrong people. Evan talks about how not to be weak and needy, and how to send an amazing first message online. For nice guy listeners, Evan tells you how to take on the “strong, successful guys.” Finally, some lessons in how to date without an agenda. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

30 Syys 201147min

Episode 302 - How to Make a Sex Tape

Episode 302 - How to Make a Sex Tape

If Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson can do it two times, why can’t you? Today Emily walks you through how to make your very own sex tape, and most importantly, what to do with it when you’re done (hint: not leaving it on your zip drive at the office). Emily shares her favorite sex story about Menace, talks about dating bad boys, and the possibility of "ecstasy" killing cancer. Menace thinks he’d make a good part-time Teletubby, and we talk about oral sex in marriage and how to make long-distance relationships last. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Syys 201154min

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