How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

How to Ask for What You Want in Bed (For Better Sex)

In this captivating episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily welcomes back adult film legend and author Joanna Angel to discuss her brilliant new choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel "Club 42." From her transformative days as a stripper to building a porn empire, Joanna shares how embracing her sexuality became the foundation of her confidence and success We dive into Joanna's fascinating journey of sexual self-discovery, exploring how stripping taught her to embrace her femininity, develop unshakeable confidence, and connect authentically with others. Her new book takes readers on multiple erotic adventures through a strip club setting, allowing you to choose your own path through various sexual scenarios—from hooking up with fellow dancers to exploring BDSM and everything in between. This episode is packed with practical advice on dirty talk, sexting, and vocal expression during intimacy. Joanna breaks down why authentic communication is crucial for great sex, how to move beyond performative sounds influenced by porn, and why being genuinely expressive enhances pleasure for everyone involved. We also explore her weakness for "band guys" and how sexual attraction doesn't always align with our feminist ideals. Key Topics Covered: How stripping transformed Joanna's confidence and sexuality The art of choose-your-own-adventure erotica Dirty talk vs. sexting: different skills for different situations Moving beyond porn-influenced sexual performance Why authentic vocalization enhances pleasure Sexual confidence and embracing your desires The psychology behind attraction to "bad boys" Creating inclusive, diverse sexual narratives Joanna's refreshing honesty about sexuality, combined with her literary talents, offers listeners both inspiration and practical tools for expanding their own sexual adventures. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or explore new fantasies, this episode celebrates the power of choice, authenticity, and unapologetic pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Joanna's journey from stripper to porn entrepreneur 08:00:00 - How stripping built unshakeable sexual confidence15:00:00 - "Club 42": Choose-your-own-adventure erotica 23:00:00 - The art of authentic dirty talk and sexting 31:00:00 - Moving beyond performative sexuality 38:00:00 - Listener questions and practical advice This episode reminds us that great sex starts with knowing yourself, embracing your desires, and having the confidence to ask for what you want—whether in the bedroom or on the page. Join the SmartSX Membership : ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx ⁠Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ ⁠ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/ ⁠ Let's get social: Instagram ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠ X ⁠https://twitter.com/sexwithemily⁠ Facebook ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠ TikTok ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily ⁠ Threads https:⁠//www.threads.net/@sexwithemily ⁠ Let's text: Sign up here ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text

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Epsisode 266 - Friends With Benefits

Epsisode 266 - Friends With Benefits

The first step to getting a friend with benefits is to have friends, so if you’re already at that stage, today’s show is just for you, as we navigate the murky waters between Platonic Island and ‘FWB’ Bay. Emily prepares herself for speed dating and debates whether or not she should she get an om-ing partner for an expanded orgasm. But the greater debate lies in whether it’s a good or bad idea to date a DJ. Plus, the most awkward moments between the sheets and what to do when they happen. And speaking of awkward times and nocturnal emissions, is it ok to hook up with an old high school friend? And even more plus: dealing with a partner’s abusive past, and the bare essentials of exhibitionism. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Elo 201154min

Episode 263 - Warm up Game

Episode 263 - Warm up Game

Today it’s all about game plans, and getting ready for the big match – from preventing STI’s to the questions to ask your partner before sex. In the final Weekend’s scores, Emily triumphs, and Menace is crushed by his awful weekend. Emily has to decide if she wants to be OM'ed (orgasmic meditation), and why anti-depressants prevent orgasms. Also discussed are the facts about female ejaculation, initiating your first strap-on experience, and how to avoid getting caught masturbating. And just to spice things up - common herpes myths. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

1 Elo 20111h 1min

Episode 257 - The G-spot Locator

Episode 257 - The G-spot Locator

Emily goes to a pool party in Los Angeles with a bucket of dildos. The recession means more sex toys because people need to have an orgasm to feel better about their financial situation. Also, ejaculation etiquette, advanced finger technique to use on women, positions for giving the best hand jobs, and the magical G-spot locator. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Heinä 201157min

SWE: Hand Job

SWE: Hand Job

Emily's going to a sex party and Menace is going to party with his prom date. Emily and Menace discuss the biggest first date deal-breakers, Harry Potter and the power of the V. Why you should never give your partner your email password and when is the right time to break up. Also, how to give a man a great hand job and Mneace shares how he likes to masturbate. Should Emily give Menace a hand job? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Heinä 201158min

SWE: Breast Play

SWE: Breast Play

Emily and Menace's assistant dissect his attitude towards women. It’s not looking pretty. Emotionally detached men, dating with kids, the best ways to meet women, how to undress a woman, and how to avoid STI's. A virgin calls into the show to ask Emily advice. Also, the do's and don'ts of breat play including but no limited to 'motor-boating.' Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Heinä 20111h 1min

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