How to become emotionally strong and have healthy boundaries

Psychotherapist Dave describes the 5 innate, natural needs we come into the world with. And he goes into detail on how these not being met by our parents cause our emotional wounds. Dave goes on to share ways in which our emotional wounds damage our current relationships, and how healing your emotional wounds benefits you in feeling calm and present in social situations. QUOTE: When our needs were not fulfilled we would become fearful of being with people because they could misattune and betray our needs the same way our parents did. And we might also on the other hand have such a bottomless pit of needs (for the needs that weren't fulfilled) that we become a burden for anyone who wants to be in a relationship with us because we demand a lot more attention, acceptance, appreciation, etc than an ordinary adult would ask for. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/davericho/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

25 Helmi 201637min

I interview therapist, trainer, author, and supervisor of therapists Judy Byrne on the inner voice that criticises you. You know, that voice that talks you down, discourages you, tells you how much of a loser you are, let's you know you're not enough, don't do enough, and that you're worthless… That voice!

 She guides you through an EFT tapping round (a simple tapping technique that is like acupunture, but without needles, and rapidly neutralises painful emotions such as fear and shame) to soften that inner critic. She also gives you plenty of suggestions on how to break down the inner voice and start to create an inner cheerleader. 

 Now how empowering would that be to have in your life? Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/taming-your-inner-critical-voice/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

18 Helmi 201637min

Neo was a virgin until he was 23 years old who forced himself to talk to 70 women a week. 
He's a certified hypnotherapist and a Master Practitioner and Trainer of NLP and has coached men and women on all aspects of attraction, intimacy, and sensuality.
 He talks about incrementally taking action; how to work with the biological signal of fear surrounding dating to get out of the energy of "I can't" and in doing so build your inner strength. He also talks you through different stages to becoming comfortable with dating to make sex a super fun, amazing, exciting experience. 
 Quoting Neo: 
"Whatever you think is too much of a stretch for you can become part of your comfort zone. If you make a decision to evolve yourself incrementally you will get there. Make a commitment and use the tools available to you and use the actions to follow up." Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/neo/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/Warm regards, Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

11 Helmi 20161h 3min

I interview the creator of the powerful and simple healing technique "The Emotion Code". This is something I have personally benefited from tremendously. It's an amazing technique and he gives it to you for free in this episode!
 Dr. Bradley Nelson is a chiropractor by training and is the developer of the Emotion code and the Body code, which are powerful healing systems based upon the finding and releasing trapped emotions using muscle testing to access the knowledge of the subconscious mind. He shares examples of what happened with clients, shares testimonials of what can be expected, and walks you through an example of how the process of the emotion code works by sharing various examples of how it works. QUOTE: "One of the beauties of the emotion code is that we bypass the conscious mind. The conscious mind doesn't know. Your conscious mind can overload and forget things, but your subconscious mind remembers everything and that is what we tap into with the emotion code. It might sound weird, but it's actually really really simple, and anyone can do it." Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/emotioncode/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

4 Helmi 201656min

One of the most terrifying, frustrating, overwhelming and discouraging things is for many people "getting triggered". Getting triggered can be by an intense spike of anxiety, or by a person, situation or circumstance triggering old wounds within you. These wounds then get opened, and you end up reliving the pain of that old trauma. This can be very challenging to deal with when you do not have the right understanding and perspective. Therefore I've created in this podcast an EFT tap-along for you to gain the proper mindset to take on when you do get triggered. By going over it you will be able to take some of the edge of the trigger, or at the very least get some relief on your feelings about getting triggered, and you'll gain an empowered perspective that actually makes you feel about the fact that you o get triggered. How is that possible? Listen in, tap along, and gain the perspective. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/triggered/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrierwww.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

28 Tammi 201624min

"You're conditioned into a social climate: Here's what you are and it's not quite good enough. And here what you should be, and here are all the people that get all the happiness and the wealth. You could have this really nice life, but your status isn't good enough, so you got to work really hard to get there and you're not allowed to accept where you are". 

 In this chat my buddy Tom and I discuss the influence of social status. Since we've both lived -and are living- in different cultures, we discuss how to be authentically YOU. QUOTE: 


I think it's good to get a range of different cultural experiences that take you out of your idea of yourself so you can realise who you're not. And then you start the real work of discovering 
"well who am I then?" Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/status/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

21 Tammi 201636min

Dating coach Tripp shares how to approach women, how he got over his approach anxiety, empowered mindsets to have for meeting and dating women, and the importance to developing yourself into a man who has options. QUOTE: "Come from a place of want and not a place of need and you can have a much more fulfilling life. That way you're also much more sexy to a woman." Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/tripp/) Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier www.social-anxiety-solutions.com _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

14 Tammi 201654min

It is of essential importance to freeing yourself of your social anxiety and creating social confidence that you believe that you can and will overcome it. But how is that possible when you're right in the middle of social anxiety and it's messing up your life? How can you believe it's possible when nothing works for you? In this episode I share insights on how to get there, and I also guide you through an EFT tapping process to build the belief: "I can and will overcome my social anxiety and live a socially confident life" This way you're set for success; you've geared your mind for social confidence. As Henry Ford says (and you know, famous people who are often quoted must be somewhat important!): Whether you think you can, or think you cannot, you are right. Enjoy this, and if you did enjoy it, consider sharing it with someone else to give them the gift or relief and empowerment. Paying good stuff forward comes back to us. Expert's show notes page (www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/scfocus/) My homepage:www.social-anxiety-solutions.com Contact me directly: www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/ Warm regards,Sebastiaan van der Schrier _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

7 Tammi 201631min