Ep 38 - Making Kink Music That Matters: Deore on Community, Consent, and Crowdfunding Tantrums

Ep 38 - Making Kink Music That Matters: Deore on Community, Consent, and Crowdfunding Tantrums

My favorite kink singer-songwriter needs our help. Deore, the incredible artist behind the Brat EP, is back and this time, she’s gearing up to release a full-length concept album called Tantrums. But in true brat fashion, she’s doing it her way: no label, no safety net, and fully trusting her kinky, ride-or-die community to bring it to life.


In this episode of The Kink Consultant, we talk about what it means to quit your job, follow your creative calling, and make music that actually reflects the reality of kink. Deore opens up about writing Tantrums from scratch, navigating service sub dynamics while in creative mode, and the very bratty legal battle over a coffee ban that had all of Instagram in stitches. We also get into how kink shows up in her relationship, how her Dom evolved alongside her, and why the idea of “ready-made” Doms is a myth.


If you’e also craving for more kinky music or just want to support someone making wildly accurate, emotionally raw bangers about submission, dominance, and desire, this is the episode (and the crowdfund) to show up for. Head to Indiegogo and search Tantrums to support the album before time runs out.


Support The Album Here:

https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/tantrums-a-kinky-concept-album#/


Connect with Deore:

https://www.instagram.com/deorebby/


Episode Highlights:

01:44 The Journey of Creating the Brat Album

09:20 The Kink Council and Coffee Ban Saga

21:11 Challenges in Music Production

21:42 Overcoming Vulnerability and Trust Issues

24:18 Crowdfunding and Community Support

26:31 Kink and Relationship Dynamics

28:52 The Role of Media in Kink Exploration

34:39 Upcoming Album and Crowdfunding Details


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Ep 02 - Into the Dungeon: My First Day as a Dominatrix

Ep 02 - Into the Dungeon: My First Day as a Dominatrix

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6 Sep 202418min

Ep 01 - How I Became the Kink Consultant

Ep 01 - How I Became the Kink Consultant

Welcome to the first episode of The Kink Consultant! I’m excited to take you on a journey into the world of kink, BDSM, and sex positivity. In this episode, I share my story—starting with a childhood fascination with spanking that grew into a passion for kink. At 24, while working in finance by day, I answered a Craigslist ad for dominatrixes by night, and it changed my life. Balancing my Wall Street career with my secret life as a dominatrix was thrilling, but when both worlds collided, I had to make some tough choices. Eventually, I left the dungeon and followed a new path: becoming a sex and relationship coach. Now, as The Kink Consultant, I’m here to demystify kink, break down stigmas, and create an open, fun space for exploration. Join me, subscribe, leave a review, and keep on kinkin' on! Episode Highlights  01:07 First Encounter with BDSM 02:38 Becoming a Dominatrix 04:53 Balancing Two Worlds 07:33 Transition to Kink Consultant 10:37 Why I started the Podcast Connect with Me:  https://www.tiktok.com/@thekinkconsultant https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Ready to explore your desires and elevate your intimate life? Book your FREE 20-minute consultation with The Kink Consultant and discover how personalized coaching can help you unlock your full potential. Whether you’re curious about kink, want to spice things up, or need expert guidance, this is your chance to get tailored advice that meets you where you are. Don’t miss out—schedule your session now and take the first step toward a more fulfilling, authentic you!Book your consultation here.

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