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World number one and all-round Tennis champion Ash Barty was knocked out of the Wimbledon Tennis competition this week after a three-set loss to American Alison Riske. And it made Jessie realise something ...that since Ash’s success at the French Open, Australia has kind of been hovering around Ash like a helicopter parent. So are we embarrassing her? Plus, we always talk about red flags going into relationships and friendships and even workplaces, but what about the green flags that make people good? And have you heard of the attention economy? Well if not, don’t worry because Mia is here to explain and she’s using the American Soccer team as the perfect example. With Holly away, we’ve got the fabulous Rachel Corbett stepping in to drive the bus… You can buy to see us live at mamamia.com.au/events and it's all thanks to our partners, Toyota Kluger…. TOUR DATES Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th JulyHobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st JulyBrisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th AugustPerth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd AugustDarwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th AugustAdelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th SeptemberCairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th SeptemberOrange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th OctoberGeelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th OctoberSydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st November Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Rachel Corbett Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Jul 201932min

Is asking someone to ‘bring a plate to your house’ problematic? Or just practical? Plus, how many of you start your day with a to do list? Because according to one woman, the best thing you can do for your productivity is throw it out immediately. And, seven Chinese women have built their dream house together and decided they'll all retire there. Is growing old with your best mates the 21st century dream? We're asking the big questions on Mamamia Out Loud today.... Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast RECOMMENDATIONS Jessie: Watching Humanity on Netflix Mia: Sarah's Channel on Youtube Holly: Watching When They See Us on Netflix END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. COME AND SEE US LIVE - FIND TICKETS HERE. Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th JulyHobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st JulyBrisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th AugustPerth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd AugustDarwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th AugustAdelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th SeptemberCairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th SeptemberOrange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th OctoberGeelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th OctoberSydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st NovemberBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

5 Jul 201937min

Pity Delta Goodrem - who was Born To Try - in a world where trying isn't cool. At all. Tom Gleeson said that his Gold Logie win was a bit of a joke, and talked down everyone who 'tried' to win it. But, hold on, wasn't he was on every TV show and magazine drumming up support? Sounds like trying to us. Plus, Taylor Swift says her 'biggest bully' now owns the rights to all her music. How the hell did that happen, and why is she now being slammed for complaining about it? And champion-'tryer' Ivanka Trump accompanied her father Donald to the G20 summit last week. And everyone is laughing at her. But is that cruel? Or is laughing at the Trumps the only way to stay sane? You can buy to see us live at mamamia.com.au/events and it's all thanks to our partners, Toyota Kluger…. TOUR DATES Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th JulyHobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st JulyBrisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th AugustPerth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd AugustDarwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th AugustAdelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th SeptemberCairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th SeptemberOrange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th OctoberGeelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th OctoberSydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st November Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

3 Jul 201936min

From changing engagement rings to Jessie recommending breakfast... this episode of Mamamia Out Loud has it all….. BUY TICKETS TO OUR LIVE SHOWS HERE. Are the Logies a joke? That’s the question on everyone's mind as we lead into the 61st TV Week Logie Awards this Sunday. Gold Logie hopeful Tom Gleeson has pitted every nominee against each other, and not everyone's happy about it. Do we owe the Logies a little bit of respect? Or is it completely redundant? Plus, is it ever okay to change your engagement ring, a year after you’ve received it? That’s what Meghan Markle has done, and Holly has some very strong feelings about it. And Elizabeth Gilbert says everyone has two hours in their day when they're at their best. When is your window? And what do you do with it? Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast RECOMMENDATIONS Jessie: Breakfast. Yes, Jessie has just discovered eating breakfast and we think she is taking the piss. And she also is watching The Voice. Mia: Carolyn Bessette on Instagram Holly: Reading Love and Other Battles by Tess Woods END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. COME AND SEE US LIVE - FIND TICKETS HERE. Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th JulyHobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st JulyBrisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th AugustPerth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd AugustDarwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th AugustAdelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th SeptemberCairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th SeptemberOrange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th OctoberGeelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th OctoberSydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st NovemberBecome a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Jun 201942min

What happens when you start believing everyone around you is doing their best? Does it change the way you think? And the President of the United States has been accused of rape, but no one is talking about it...so what’s going on? Oh, and we have a special announcement… This week one story is dominating all our media and that's the saga of Israel Folau. The rugby player, whose job, money, and now wife, is filling every news report across the country. So why are we so captivated by this issue? Plus, Donald Trump has been accused of rape and no one is talking about it. And Brene Brown wants us to think that all people are doing their best. But is that really true? And why can it be hard to do? Oh! And in case you missed it - we are going on tour! You can buy tickets on Friday at mamamia.com.au/events and it's all thanks to our partners, Toyota Kluger…. TOUR DATES Melbourne - Malthouse Theatre Thursday 25th JulyHobart - Theatre Royal Wednesday 31st JulyBrisbane - Brisbane Powerhouse Thursday 8th AugustPerth - Heath Ledger Theatre (State Theatre Centre) Thursday 22nd AugustDarwin - Studio Theatre (Darwin Entertainment Centre) Thursday 29th AugustAdelaide - Norwood Concert Hall Wednesday 4th SeptemberCairns - Tanks Arts Centre Wednesday 25th SeptemberOrange - Orange Civic Theatre Wednesday 16th OctoberGeelong - GPAC Wednesday 30th OctoberSydney - Seymour Centre Friday 1st November Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

26 Jun 201940min

Jessie has a new show! It's called True Crime Conversations and each episode sees her interviewing experts about crimes that captivated, horrified and perplexed people from rural Australia to the world stage. This is the first episode about the case of Belgian Backpacker Davine Arckens. When 24-year-old Belgian backpacker Davine Arckens reached out to a man on Gumtree about working on his farm she was excited. The 88 days of labour would mean she could stay in Australia on a tourist visa for an extra year. She couldn’t wait to spend more time in a country she thought was safe and full of nice people. When Davine met the man it didn’t take long for her to realise she’d made a terrible mistake. Driven to what felt like the middle of nowhere, Davine was convinced she was hours from the nearest town. What followed was two harrowing days where she was held against her will and an escape that made national headlines. Walkley award winning journalist Richard Guilliatt reported on the story and he joins Jessie Stephens to walk us through it. Join our Facebook group True Crime Conversations here. CREDITS GUEST: Richard GuilliattHOST: Jessie StephensSENIOR PRODUCER/EDITOR: Elise Cooper RESEARCH Richard Guilliatt for The Weekend Australian "I’ve Been Kidnapped. No Joke" Sentencing remarks from South Australian District Court 9 News Adelaide Nightly News 7 News Adelaide Farmer who chained and raped backpacker in Meningie pig shed sentenced 60 minutes Backpacker kidnapped and shackled in abandoned pig shed by madman GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at podcast@mamamia.com.au True Crime Conversations is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Jun 201953min

We debate, discuss and dissect everything from the sex lives of millennials to whether or not you should confront someone who told you they were having a birthday dinner but then never sent you an invite. HOW RUDE! Rihanna has come out as a #ShyGirl in a recent interview, which has us wondering whether there’s a difference between shyness and introversion. And whether one of them is just a cover for laziness. Plus, it’s all over the news that millennials are NOT having less sex and that maybe we’ve been fooled by bad data. So why are Gen Y fooling around less often? Holly has some passionate words for those who aren’t regularly getting busy between the sheets. And in group therapy we help out a listener who doesn’t know what to do about her close friend not inviting her to her birthday dinner. Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast RECOMMENDATIONS Mia: Model Co Lash XTend Mascara Mac Studio Fix 24 Hour Smooth Wear Concealer Jessie: Reply All: Permanent Record episode, True Crime Conversations - https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/true-crime-conversations/ Holly: You can listen to the Lady Start Up episode with Canva founder Melanie Perkins here https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/lady-startup/melanie-perkins-billionaire-canva/ END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff and Elise Cooper COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Jun 201941min

From Taylor Swift's new music video to why we need to protect backpackers more in Australia, the latest episode of Mamamia Out Loud is live... Taylor Swift's new music video for You Need To Calm Down has split people into two camps: It’s either an empowering LGBTQIA+ anthem or it’s a tone-deaf, attempt to co-opt a marginalised group’s stories. Please explain. Plus, Jessie’s been working on a new true crime podcast and the first episode is all about an horrific attack on a young Belgian backpacker. Do we need to do more to protect young travellers to Australia? (You can subscribe to her new show here). And in a column in the Weekend Australian, Nikki Gemmell asked the strangest question: Why do male gynaecologists do their jobs? Subscribe to Mamamia Out Loud here: https://omny.fm/shows/mamamia-out-loud/playlists/podcast END BITS Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright. Producers: Elissa Ratliff COME TALK TO US Join the Out Louders Facebook group GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at outloud@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia Mamamia Out Loud is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

19 Jun 201937min