S15 Ep.9: Men Faking, Women Not Reciprocating, and Should I Warn Lovers My Penis Is Small?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:

1) I’m dating again after a divorce and have met a new man I really like, but I’m convinced he’s faking orgasms. Why would he do this, and should I say something?

2) I’ve been with my new girlfriend for four months, and although I’ve given her oral sex every single time we make love, not once has she offered to reciprocate. I’ve made jokes about it, but she says it's just never been something she's keen on, although she doesn't have any real objections. I thought things would change as she felt more comfortable, but they haven’t. How do I handle this?

3) I have a smaller than average penis. It’s never been a problem with girlfriends because I give lots of oral sex. It doesn’t bother me—if anything, it’s made me a better lover because I can’t rely on penetration. But every girlfriend has registered surprise when she first sees it. Should I warn potential lovers beforehand, or just make a joke when all is revealed, which is what I do now? I don’t want to make women feel uncomfortable.

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