Coercive Control Explained: Therapist Analyzes Monique Tepe's Years of Hidden Fear

Family members say Monique Tepe talked about being terrified of Michael McKee for eight years. She described the abuse. She warned people about the death threats. She carried that fear while building a new marriage, raising two children, and living what looked like a happy life.

She never filed a police report. There were no stalking complaints on record.

Why do victims of coercive control stay silent when it comes to the legal system — even when they clearly understand the danger?

In Part 2 of our three-part expert interview series, psychotherapist Shavaun Scott examines the victim experience. With over thirty years in domestic violence shelters and trauma recovery — and as a survivor of an emotionally abusive marriage herself — Shavaun brings both clinical expertise and personal understanding to these questions.

We examine what Laura Richards calls "murder in slow motion" — psychological abuse that leaves no visible marks. We explore why victims hope distance and time will protect them. We analyze what it does to someone to live in fear for years while trying to maintain normalcy. And we ask what it means that Monique's wedding vows to Spencer — three years after leaving McKee — still referenced "wrong relationships" and "waterfalls of tears."

The weight victims carry. The silence the system enables.

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