436: Attachment Styles Explained: Why We Chase Unavailable People (and What To Do Instead) with Thais Gibson

436: Attachment Styles Explained: Why We Chase Unavailable People (and What To Do Instead) with Thais Gibson

Why do we want the people who give us the least clarity? Why do situationships feel addictive, and emotionally unavailable partners feel magnetic?


In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, breaks down attachment styles and how they shape attraction, chemistry, boundaries, and relationship patterns. We discuss anxious attachment, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, and secure attachment, when attachment styles begin, and why they can change throughout life.


We also explore the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding, why we’re drawn to our repressed traits, the six stages of relationships, and why nervous system work alone isn’t enough to create secure relationships. Thais shares the five pillars to change your attachment style, common triggers and boundary patterns for each style, and the practical steps to becoming securely attached.


If you’re stuck in mixed signals, repeating relationship patterns, or craving clarity in love, this episode will help you understand why, and what to do differently.


Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School’s 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.


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437: 2026 Reset: My Fitness, Food and Beauty Blueprint

437: 2026 Reset: My Fitness, Food and Beauty Blueprint

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435: Top 10 Hormone Myths: The Truth About Weight Gain, Hair Loss, Acne, Peptides + More with Dr. Jordan Geller

435: Top 10 Hormone Myths: The Truth About Weight Gain, Hair Loss, Acne, Peptides + More with Dr. Jordan Geller

Dr. Jordan Geller is a dual board-certified endocrinologist specializing in hormones and lifestyle. He joins the show to break down what we’re getting wrong about hormones, and how misinformation keep...

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434: How To Effortlessly Attract More Wealth, Up-Level Your Confidence, and Manifest With Ease (Ft. Mimi Bouchard)

434: How To Effortlessly Attract More Wealth, Up-Level Your Confidence, and Manifest With Ease (Ft. Mimi Bouchard)

Mimi Bouchard is an entrepreneurial trailblazer, founder of Activations, and is known for helping women upgrade their lives. In this tangible episode, Mimi shares how to fully step into the person you...

19 Tammi 55min

433: Lasers, Retinol and Sun Damage: The Skincare Mistake Celebrity Aesthetician Shani Darden Sees Everyday

433: Lasers, Retinol and Sun Damage: The Skincare Mistake Celebrity Aesthetician Shani Darden Sees Everyday

No filters, no fluff, and definitely no 12-step routines. Skincare has never been more confusing (or more aggressive) and in this episode, your favorite celebrity’s favorite esthetician, Shani Darden,...

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432: Strong, Lean and Sharp: The Science-Backed Tools to Master 2026 with World Renowned Performance Coach Dr. Andy Galpin

432: Strong, Lean and Sharp: The Science-Backed Tools to Master 2026 with World Renowned Performance Coach Dr. Andy Galpin

In this New Year strength, mindset and longevity episode, I sit down with Dr. Andy Galpin, one of the world’s foremost experts in human performance. With 20 years spent studying the science and practi...

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431: The Best Wellness Tips of 2025

431: The Best Wellness Tips of 2025

This best of wellness mashup episode brings together the most thought provoking conversations, mindset shifts, and expert insights from the year, distilled into one intentional listen. We’re cutting t...

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429: Naughty, Nice, Necessary, or Never Again: Our End of Year Beauty & Wellness Audit with Dr. Miguel Mascaró

429: Naughty, Nice, Necessary, or Never Again: Our End of Year Beauty & Wellness Audit with Dr. Miguel Mascaró

This holiday episode is part aesthetic audit, part emotional clean out and part unfiltered group chat with my friend—and yours—Dr. Miguel Mascaró.We’re unpacking the ghosts of aesthetic past, present,...

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