116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

In this episode, I answer three honest and intimate questions from my community about mental arousal and fantasy, shame or disgust around self-touch, and burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance. We explore why the brain is essential for pleasure, where the “dirty” feeling around touching yourself comes from, and how to listen to your body when it communicates through sensation rather than symptoms.

In this episode:

  • Why mental arousal and fantasy are a natural and necessary part of pleasure

  • Letting go of judgment around needing erotic imagination to feel turned on

  • Where the “dirty” feeling around self-touch is learned and how to change it

  • Psychological, subconscious, and somatic roots of sexual shame

  • Burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance as tension or stored communication

  • How to gently explore sensation through presence, touch, and body awareness

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119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

In this episode, I explore the nuance of sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and what it really means to meet each other in desire, even when you’re not fully “in the mood.” I share the deeper ...

2 Huhti 25min

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relation...

17 Maalis 24min

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk...

3 Maalis 33min

115: life updates + my season of expansion

115: life updates + my season of expansion

In this episode, I drop in with an honest life update after a long pause from the podcast. I share what the past months have really been like behind the scenes—sleep deprivation, sickness, moving home...

4 Helmi 24min

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

In this episode, I answer three powerful questions from my community about orgasms, disgust in self-touch, and how to find your way back to sex after a long dry spell in a relationship. We explore the...

11 Joulu 202534min

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

In this episode, I unpack a powerful question from a listener who shared that while she’s a fully capable adult woman in every area of life (career, motherhood, friendship, creativity), but her sexual...

4 Joulu 202538min

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

In this episode, I share what it means to step fully into your slut era inside a committed relationship (or in singlehood). I talk about why this energy is so powerful, how it revived my own desire, a...

1 Joulu 202528min

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