Taking a Sex "Time Out" in a Relationship: Helpful Reset or Risky Move?
Taking a break from sex while in a relationship can feel scary, relieving, confusing—or all three at once. In this episode, we explore the idea of a sex "time out": what it is, why couples choose it, ...
11 Maalis 45min
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 4- Safety and Risk-Aware Play
Pain can be powerful, erotic, and deeply connecting — but only when it's grounded in safety, consent, and awareness. In this fourth episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore what risk-awa...
4 Maalis 51min
Valentine's Day Ideas When You've Just Started Dating
Valentine's Day can feel awkward when you've just started dating. Is a card too much? Is doing nothing a red flag? And does the holiday automatically come with expectations around sex? In this episode...
25 Helmi 54min
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 3- Different Types of Pain Play
Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play w...
11 Helmi 55min
Dating a Trans Person- Understanding Gender Identity vs. Sexual Orientation
What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down the basics without dumbing it down...
4 Helmi 1h 6min
A Conversation About Consent- ENCORE
Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we will be back with new episodes soon. ENCORE Episode T...
28 Tammi 44min
Year In Review
The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back on episodes that were both serious and comical but ...
14 Tammi 50min
