Episode 254: How Big is Too Big?

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you ca...

30 Maalis 46min

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your m...

23 Maalis 43min

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important question: How is this going to impact the lifestyle? Pl...

16 Maalis 53min

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping straight into ethical non-monogamy impact our sex l...

9 Maalis 55min

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relationships, things can get sticky fast. We explain ho...

2 Maalis 44min

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our professional worlds moving forward. We also discuss the conc...

23 Helmi 54min

Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitally and at events. It's led us to one very important question:...

16 Helmi 53min

It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all laugh about it, but have you ever stopped to think about the ...

9 Helmi 56min