158. I’m a guy, a kinkster and a feminist - how do I explain this to partners?

How do I speak to a new partner about my interest in kinky stuff, when I’m just getting started exploring them myself? And how do I express my curiosity around sex without coming off as a kind of man I really don’t identify with?

Today’s guest is Antoine. He wants to explore kinkiness more, but feel self-contious when it comes to bringing it up with new partners. I’m challenging him on how to use skills he already has to express not only what he longs for in bed, but also who he is as a person and lover. I ask him to break kinkiness down into more manageable mouthfulls to awake curiosity in his partners, but also to use his vulnerability as a tool for security and connection.

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