
The Vampire Effect: How Covert Narcissists Slowly Drain You
What if covert narcissistic abuse doesn’t feel like an attack… but like a slow drain? In this episode, we explore The Vampire Effect—a powerful metaphor that reveals how covert narcissists gradually c...
2 Huhti 31min

The War Inside You: Why You Still Miss Them After Covert Narcissistic Abuse (IFS Explained)
Why do you still miss someone who hurt you? If you’ve experienced covert narcissistic abuse, this question can feel confusing, frustrating, and even shameful. You can see the manipulation, the gasligh...
29 Maalis 25min

Covert Narcissistic Abuse: How to Move Forward Without Rushing Your Decision
If you’re trying to heal from covert narcissistic abuse but feel unsure about your next step, this episode will meet you where you are. In part 2 of this CNG Community Chat, we explore what it looks l...
26 Maalis 31min

The War Inside You: Why Part of You Still Misses Them (Covert Narcissistic Abuse)
Why do you still miss them… even after everything you’ve been through? If you’ve experienced covert narcissistic abuse, you may find yourself stuck in an internal battle—one part of you sees the truth...
22 Maalis 23min

Covert Narcissism: You’re Allowed to Pause Before Deciding to Stay or Leave
If you’re in a relationship that feels confusing, overwhelming, or emotionally draining, you may be wondering if you’re dealing with covert narcissism—and whether you should stay or leave. In this par...
19 Maalis 31min

5 Questions to Ask Yourself When Covert Narcissism Might Be in the Room
Last week’s episode explored why covert narcissism appears to be thriving in today’s culture and the conditions that allow these behaviors to remain hidden. In this follow-up episode, we bring the con...
15 Maalis 22min

The Invisible Rulebook: The Strange Rules Covert Narcissists Expect You to Follow
In relationships with a covert narcissist, control doesn’t always appear as obvious demands. Instead, it often shows up through a confusing set of small, unwritten "rules" that quietly shape everyday ...
12 Maalis 27min

Why Covert Narcissism Is Thriving in Today’s Culture: 5 Conditions That Allow It to Hide
Is narcissism actually increasing, or are we simply becoming more aware of it? The truth is that narcissistic traits have always existed throughout history. What changes over time is the environment t...
8 Maalis 29min






















