Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss

Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss

Besties, throughout September we covered all things personal growth and really checked in with each other. So the best way to end this month is by talking to Neil Strauss, a ten-time New York Times best-selling author. His books, The Game and Rules Of The Game, for which he went undercover in a secret society of pickup artists for two years, made him an international celebrity and an accidental hero to men around the world. Though this sounds a little questionable, the topic here is GROWTH, which is exactly what’s displayed here today.

This week on Almost Adulting, Violet and Neil begin the conversation by diving right into the controversy of his best selling book, The Game. Violet asks Neil to dive deep to help people understand who he was at that time and unpack the chokehold the book had on society. Of course, this isn't an Almost Adulting episode if the two didn’t talk about relationships. Neil explains why divorce was one of the best things him and his ex-wife could have ever done, leading them to having an amazing relationship today. They also discuss the common mistakes that often lead to breakups, how to move on from said breakups, and why a cheater will remain a cheater unless they mention these specific words…tune in Besties!


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 02:40 This is how lonely I’ve gotten
  • 04:41 See you guys again at Hollywood Improv!
  • 08:25 I get to experience being 15 years old again
  • 11:39 The Game
  • 17:32 What’s the dirtiest advice?
  • 19:20 Non-violent communication
  • 22:37 If you’re both not ready, it’s not going to happen
  • 24:22 Getting drawn to people familiar to you
  • 27:32 Work on yourself and improve your emotional intelligence
  • 28:42 Can a player change their ways?
  • 31:37 Both partner have to make the relationship work
  • 34:12 A relationships isn’t a failure if it ends
  • 36:18 How to create a happy relationship?
  • 37:32 How do you move on from a relationship that didn’t work?
  • 39:20 When you see your partner like a parent
  • 43:28 How do you overcome being the villain?
  • 45:35 The cheating ex
  • 46:54 Do you believe cheaters can change?


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Finding My Husband: American Meets Russian Standards - Vegas Part 1

Finding My Husband: American Meets Russian Standards - Vegas Part 1

It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman.Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back, planned dates, opened doors, used empathy, and was willing to change. Is this too good to be true… or have I met my match? You tell me.Welcome to Part 1 of Finding My Husband: Vegas - where romance meets chaos, Russian standards meet American men, and emotionally stable men are the new red flag. I said what I said.(dating podcast • Vegas trip chaos • attachment theory • love bomber or match • relationship overthinking • female hosted podcast)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Finding My Husband: Dating an Avoidant - Vegas Part 2

Finding My Husband: Dating an Avoidant - Vegas Part 2

The trip ended, the lessons didn’t.In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game: how to keep him hooked without losing yourselfWhy even healthy love will still drive you a little insane sometimesHow to self-regulate before you self-sabotageFrom overthinking to attachment theoryEverything you need to know about dating an avoidantAnd how to actually win an avoidant over(dating podcast • attachment styles • relationship advice • how to love an avoidant • female-hosted podcast)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Why You Need to Stop Caring Who Thinks You’re Cringe

Why You Need to Stop Caring Who Thinks You’re Cringe

Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE.Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe.. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts. And once you get it, you’ll realise other people’s opinions have zero power over you. This is your permission slip to post, build, create, and live unapologetically.Want an ad free podcast experience?? Subscribe to my ad free podcast at - https://almostadulting.supercast.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Finding My Husband: Billionaire or Bookman? - Part 6

Finding My Husband: Billionaire or Bookman? - Part 6

Do you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Finding My Husband,” the universe drops a literal billionaire into my life right as I’m about to take things with Bookman to the next level. I unpack lust vs. stability, attachment wounds, and the messy decisions that follow… and by the end, I make a huge choice.WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE, BESTIE?Don’t forget to subscribe for weekly episodes and leave a 5-star review on Apple or Spotify so I know you want more of this series.(Dating podcast • relationship advice • modern love • situationship • dating stories)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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GET HIM OBSESSED - LIBRA

GET HIM OBSESSED - LIBRA

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU.Get ready to discover:🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you.🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection.🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and what will tip the scales against you).🔥 The signs he’s pulling away—and how to bring back the spark.🔥 Strategies to win him back if things have gone off course.Whether you’re drawn to his charm and sophistication or working to reignite his passion, this episode will give you the tools to master the art of loving a Libra man.Hit play now and make sure to save this episode to make this September all about claiming the heart of the zodiac’s ultimate charmer! ✨See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Finding My Husband: The Bar Is in Hell - Part 5

Finding My Husband: The Bar Is in Hell - Part 5

Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS.From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs. Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play

Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play

Welcome to the narcissist playbookThink you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and telling you exactly how to spot the BS before it wrecks your self-esteem. If you’ve ever left a date wondering if you’re crazy… spoiler: you’re not. He’s just a narcissist.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Finding My Husband: Fight or Flight - Part 4

Finding My Husband: Fight or Flight - Part 4

From choking games to first kisses. Welcome to the most chaotic update yet. Is Bookman too good to be true… or did I just meet my match?See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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