
Mixing Kink and Sex
In this episode, I discuss the most controversial topic in kink (I think). The mixing (or not) of kink and sex. What I think both sides get wrong. What I believe the origin of this argument is and ...
21 Kesä 202418min

The Attraction of Sadism
Today I talk about what attracted me to sadism. The origins of it for me. As well as how I think sadists try to develop a mystique around them that often fails.
14 Kesä 202424min

How to Get Started in Shibari and Rope Bondage
Getting started in Rope bondage and shibari was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life. In this episode I talk about how to get started, and the equipment needed. Why suspension should nev...
7 Kesä 202434min

What Is Primal?
Primal is one of those play styles that does not lend itself to words easily. I try to give it words in this episode. What it is. How to bring it to life. Play styles. What makes it special. And ...
31 Touko 202419min

Why BDSM and D/S Goes Wrong So Often
No matter what you do, if you play with BDSM and especially D/s, things will go wrong. I equate these extras in relationships to be “relationships on hard mode”. I talk about some of the reasons why...
24 Touko 202428min

Fake Dom/Sub vs. Real Dom/Sub
The concept of fake vs. real is way overused. I have my problems with many ways that people do things and call it something its not. But in this episode I talk about how its more a matter of matchin...
17 Touko 202416min

DD/LG: Beyond The Stigma
DD//g goes through cycles of stigmatized and then popular. I talk about why that is and how DD/LG doesn’t deserve that stigma at all.
10 Touko 202415min





















