
Leading After the Crash: Mayday's Journey of Impact & Influence
Leading After the Crash: Mayday's Journey of Impact & InfluenceMayday’s story begins in the sky, flying an ultralight plane over Iowa farmland. A sudden seat cushion gets sucked into the propeller. The engine fails. The plane drops. He crashes into an alfalfa field and walks away alive.That moment didn’t just shake his life, it shaped it.This episode dives into what happens after the crash — how a man rebuilds his identity, strengthens his faith, leads his family, and finds brotherhood that carries him through the hard roads of life.This is a story for any man who has ever failed, fallen, or faced a moment that forced him to decide who he will be next.✅ What You’ll LearnHow to lead your life after failure shakes youWhy men need hard things to stay mentally strongThe difference between isolation and brotherhoodHow to identify and go to war with your JesterThe power of Shield Lock in seasons of stressHow work, family, and faith form a legacy that lasts🔥 Memorable Sound Bites“You don’t find who you are. You choose who you are.”“Leadership is learned in the crash, not the comfort.”“If you don’t add logs to the fire, the fire goes out.”“This life is a gift. I didn’t create it. God did.”🕒 Timestamps 0:00 Welcome and Setup 3:28 Life Growing Up on the Farm 11:18 The Plane Crash Story 18:50 Finding F3 and the Early Struggle 24:40 The Queen, The Jester, and Fast Food Battles 31:12 Building a Family Farm and Work Ethic 40:05 The Power of Shield Lock Brotherhood 46:20 Returning to Faith and Leading Your Family 53:15 Failure, Purpose, and Choosing Who You Become 1:00:12 Final Reflections and How to Pray for Mayday
9 Marras 1h 12min

Behind the Lens of Leadership: How Polaroid Captures What Really Matters
Behind the Lens of Leadership: How Polaroid Captures What Really MattersIn this episode of The Glue-OOM, we sit down with Joe “Polaroid” Willman, a creative mind and humble leader who has helped shape the F3 Omaha community from behind the scenes. From photographing Jays games to helping launch F3 websites and foundations, Polaroid shares how saying yes changed his life — transforming him from a quiet contributor to a leader who helps other men find their focus.Polaroid’s story is one every man needs to hear — about consistency, grace, and learning to lead without needing the spotlight.✅ What You’ll Learn in This Episode✅ Why “saying yes” can unlock growth in every area of life ✅ How quiet, dependable leaders drive lasting impact ✅ What F3 taught Polaroid about vulnerability and belonging ✅ The power of fellowship during seasons of doubt and transition ✅ How leading behind the camera mirrors servant leadership ✅ Lessons from marriage, mentorship, and learning to give grace🔊 Powerful Sound Bites🎙️ “Stop saying no. Allow what’s being served to you to disrupt your day and see what comes out of it.” 🎙️ “You don’t have to be in the spotlight to lead — sometimes you lead best by listening.” 🎙️ “Grace is powerful. You’re enough — and you’re where you’re supposed to be.” 🎙️ “I love hanging with the six. You learn more from the back of the pack than the front.”⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Intro: Cayman Islands, Creighton, and the birth of “Polaroid” 07:00 – Early F3 days and learning accountability 15:00 – Balancing health, work, and self-expectations 18:00 – From fitness to fellowship: finding vulnerability 23:00 – Marriage, mentorship, and learning grace 27:00 – Saying yes to leadership and finding his lane 33:00 – Growth through relationships and older mentors 39:00 – Faith, community, and Catholic roots 41:00 – Overcoming self-doubt and leading from behind 46:00 – Lessons from being a Site Q and servant leadership 53:00 – Final reflections: Dependability, patience, and the next chapter
2 Marras 1h 2min

Oxygen for the Soul: Patty Mayonnaise on Leadership, Grace, and the Power of Breath
Summary: Bryan “Patty Mayonnaise” Krajicek, a pulmonologist and father of five, spent years helping others breathe until he realized he’d lost his own breath in the chaos of work, burnout, and life. In this episode, he opens up about rediscovering faith, brotherhood, and balance through F3. From pandemic exhaustion to a 50K birthday run, Patty’s story is a powerful reminder that leadership starts with taking a breath and letting grace fill your lungs again.✅Highlights:✅ Why even leaders need oxygen the emotional and spiritual kind ✅ How a pulmonologist rediscovered purpose through faith and community ✅ The link between breathing, burnout, and grace under pressure ✅ Lessons on vulnerability, listening, and leading through failure ✅ How F3 brotherhood and morning workouts became therapy for the soul ✅ What “looking in your own backyard” really means for modern men ✅ The power of running, fatherhood, and forgiveness as acts of leadership🧠 Sound Bites“I save lives by day, but F3 helped save mine at dawn.” “If something’s missing in your life, start by looking in your own backyard.” “Leadership starts with listening and sometimes that means listening to your own breath.” “Grace isn’t earned; it’s inhaled one breath at a time.”⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – The story behind the name “Patty Mayonnaise” 07:00 – Life as a pulmonologist during the pandemic and the burnout that followed 13:00 – Finding F3 and rediscovering his breath through brotherhood 20:00 – Running, rucking, and the healing power of movement 27:00 – Navigating divorce, blended family life, and forgiveness 33:00 – Faith through failure: lessons from Catholic to Lutheran to grace 41:00 – Leadership, humility, and the art of listening 47:00 – How a morning coffee turned into a leadership strategy 52:00 – “Look in your own backyard” — Patty’s VQ message 56:00 – Running with his son and reconnecting with his brother Skeeter 1:01:00 – Closing reflections: gratitude, grace, and giving oxygen to others
26 Loka 1h 8min

Vespa’s Road to Respect: Leadership Lessons from the Man Who Rides Through the Storm
📘Description: What happens when a man who built his life on routine, work, and quiet strength steps into the chaos of transformation? Meet Steve “Vespa” Rease, a leader who found brotherhood, faith, and redemption through F3 Omaha. From divorce to rediscovering purpose, Vespa’s story is one every man needs to hear about finding courage, leading with humility, and learning that strength isn’t just physical, it’s spiritual.✅ Highlights✅ How Vespa overcame fear and routine to find community and purpose ✅ Why “Leave No Man Behind” changed his mindset about leadership ✅ Lessons from fatherhood, business ownership, and rebuilding after divorce ✅ How faith guided him through failure and toward redemption ✅ The importance of hard conversations, communication, and leading by example ✅ How vulnerability and brotherhood forge stronger men🎧 Powerful Sound Bites“Nobody goes to the bar drunk — we all come to F3 because we need something.”“You can’t do it all yourself. That’s why we pick up the six.”“If you sense something’s wrong, don’t bury it — communicate it.”“Everybody’s fighting a battle. The question is: are you fighting alone?”“At 56, I feel stronger than ever — not because of muscle, but because of faith.”⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Intro: Vespa joins The Glue-OOM 02:30 – How Cataracts and Boji EH’d him into F3 Omaha 07:00 – The origin of the nickname “Vespa” (Harley vs Scooter story) 10:40 – Early nerves, humility, and learning “Leave No Man Behind” 14:00 – Turning 56 and feeling stronger than ever 18:00 – Advice for new guys: Modify as necessary 23:00 – Shield locks, friendship, and brotherhood 26:00 – Lessons from leading his kids through example 29:00 – Divorce, communication, and faith through hard times 37:00 – God’s providence and meeting Carol at church 45:00 – Leadership takeaways from running the Wolf Den site 52:00 – Succession planning and leading others into leadership 54:30 – Final reflections: Faith, adversity, and the power of vulnerability
19 Loka 1h 1min

ABCs of Leadership: Jackson 5 Finds His Rhythm
🎥 Summaty In this episode, we sit down with Jackson 5, a HIM whose story hits all the right notes — faith, family, and finding his rhythm in leadership. From the moment he got his F3 name to the lessons learned through leading men, Jackson 5 shares what it means to live out the ABCs of Leadership — Authenticity, Brotherhood, and Consistency. Whether you’re new to F3 or leading in the gloom every morning, this episode will remind you why leadership isn’t about perfection, it’s about presence. ✅ Highlights ✅ How Jackson 5 got his F3 name (and the story behind it) ✅ The ABCs of leadership — Authenticity, Brotherhood, Consistency ✅ Lessons on balancing family, faith, and leadership ✅ Why humor and humility are critical in leading men ✅ The power of showing up and leading from the front ✅ How F3 helped him find rhythm, focus, and calling 🔊 Sound Bites 🎙️ “Leadership isn’t about being the loudest guy in the circle — it’s about being the most consistent one.” 🎙️ “My name was a joke at first, but it became a reminder that I’m called to lead my family first.” 🎙️ “F3 taught me that the best leaders don’t command respect — they earn it through service.” 🎙️ “You can’t find your rhythm until you learn to listen to the men around you.” 🎙️ “The gloom is where I found my voice — and realized God had been tuning me for this all along.” 🕒 Timestamps 00:00 – Intro & The Story Behind “Jackson 5” 07:30 – Finding Rhythm in the Chaos of Leadership 15:45 – Family, Faith, and Early Mornings in the Gloom 24:10 – Lessons Learned from Leading Men 33:50 – Balancing Humility and Confidence 46:00 – The ABCs of Leadership in Action 55:00 – Final Thoughts: Consistency Beats Perfection
12 Loka 1h 1min

From Corrections to Connection: How Brotherhood Changed Boss Hog's Leadership
📜 Summary In this episode of The Glue-OOM, we sit down with Boss Hog, a former corrections director turned servant leader, to unpack his transformation through fitness, fellowship, and faith. From his first confused morning at Mount Olympus to leading the Sanitarium site and rediscovering purpose through community, this story is a blueprint for every man trying to find his way out of isolation and into impact. 🧭 Episode Highlights ✅ The story behind the name “Boss Hog” and his first post at Mount Olympus ✅ How he went from skeptical outsider to leading a thriving F3 site ✅ Lessons learned from “picking up the six” and the art of servant leadership ✅ Balancing marriage, family, and the early-morning grind ✅ Why vulnerability is the gateway to brotherhood ✅ How introversion became his greatest leadership strength ✅ What firing an employee taught him about courage and calling ✅ The spiritual journey: rediscovering faith through fellowship, not religion ✅ Why on-site coffee might be the most underrated leadership tool in F3 🎧 Sound Bites “You don’t realize what you’re missing until you find it — that’s what F3 was for me.” “F3 made me a better husband, a better father, a better leader at work.” “You can’t pick up the six if you’re still running from your own stuff.” “Vulnerability isn’t weakness — it’s the doorway to brotherhood.” “Leadership is coffee, conversations, and showing up.” ⏱️ Timestamps 0:00 – Intro and Sarpy County stories 2:40 – How Boss Hog got his name 5:30 – Early fitness struggles and breakthrough moments 14:00 – Losing 30 pounds and gaining purpose 18:30 – Discovering fellowship and fighting isolation 21:00 – Balancing F3 with marriage and family life 27:30 – Shield Lock and mentorship stories (Firewalker, Low Flow, Shrewt) 30:00 – Defining family values and raising good humans 34:00 – Faith journey: from church walls to morning prayers 45:00 – Leadership lessons from site-Qing at The Sanitarium 53:00 – Translating F3 lessons into work and life 58:00 – Final reflections: vulnerability, faith, and the power of brotherhood
5 Loka 1h 5min

Running Toward The Fight: ICB on Grit, Brotherhood, & Leadership
📺 Summary In this episode of The Glue-OOM, we sit down with Irish Car Bomb (ICB) — a police officer, father, and respected F3 Omaha leader. From surviving divorce to chasing down suspects at 50 years old, ICB shares how F3 fitness, fellowship, and faith transformed his life, his leadership, and his legacy. This is a story of grit, accountability, and why brotherhood matters when life gets heavy. ✅ Highlights ✅ ICB’s Origin Story — from tattoos to the nickname “Irish Car Bomb” ✅ Police Life & Fitness — chasing down suspects thanks to F3 stamina ✅ Overcoming Divorce — finding brotherhood in the gloom ✅ Fatherhood & Family — raising Irish twins and supporting his daughter through heart surgery ✅ Leadership Lessons — what it’s like to site-Q two AOs at once ✅ Faith in Action — why F3’s prayers and fellowship helped fight cynicism 🎙️ Sound Bites “You don’t realize you’re the sad clown… until you step into the gloom.”“At 50 years old, I was still able to catch a 20-year-old suspect — thanks to F3.” “Half the guys bringing food for my daughter’s surgery, I didn’t even know by name yet.” “Leadership isn’t about numbers, it’s about being present and building small groups.” ⏱️ Timestamps 0:00 – Intro & ICB’s F3 nickname story 6:00 – From fitness ruts to F3 accountability 13:00 – Chasing suspects & thanking F3 for stamina 20:00 – Mental health battles in law enforcement27:00 – Fellowship, Shield Locks & giving it away 32:00 – Divorce, fatherhood & Irish twins 49:00 – Daughter’s open-heart surgery & F3 stepping up 53:00 – Launching Boxcar & leading Oscar Mike 1:01:00 – Leadership lessons & final reflections
28 Syys 1h 9min

Beyond the Disc: Amazin’ on Competition, Fatherhood, and Faith
📖 Summary:In this episode of The Glue-OOM, we sit down with Patrick “Amazin’” McNamara to unpack his journey from New York Mets fan to Omaha leader. From his first F3 beatdown to adopting the “Amazin’” nickname, Patrick shares how fitness, fellowship, and faith shaped his leadership, fatherhood, and outlook on life. This conversation is full of competitive grit, heartfelt reflection, and practical wisdom for any man striving to lead well.✅ Highlights✅ How “Amazin’” was EH’d into F3 and why his nickname has an apostrophe✅ Lessons from leading the Disco site and engaging FNGs✅ The balance of fitness, faith, and fatherhood as a lawyer and dad✅ Why optimism, vulnerability, and brotherhood matter in leadership✅ The power of community, prayer, and showing up even after setbacks🔥 Sound Bites:“Just because yesterday wasn’t the best, doesn’t mean tomorrow can’t be.”“Sometimes you need a mentor, and sometimes you need to be one.”“F3 makes you more motivated, more active, and more present for your family.”⏱️ Timestamps:00:00 – Intro at Old Town Elkhorn Nomad02:00 – Amazin’s EH story and first beatdown experience06:50 – Why the apostrophe matters in “Amazin’”09:30 – From Orange Theory to F3: fitness and discipline14:00 – Suit shopping, goals, and staying accountable18:40 – Competition, Mamba mentality, and Iron Pax Challenge23:20 – Friendships, shield lock, and community bonds30:25 – Adoption story and fatherhood journey42:00 – Faith, prayer, and COT moments50:00 – Leadership, site Q lessons, and succession57:30 – Optimism, legacy, and parting wisdom
21 Syys 1h 3min






















