212: Everyone is Not a Minimalist: Here's Why I Am by Nikcole Wiles of EnglishWallflower.com

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3738: Michael Mehlberg shares a vivid story of helping baby sea turtles reach the ocean, using it as a powerful metaphor for how distractions pull us away from our most important goals. Just like turtles drawn to artificial lights instead of the moon, we risk losing focus and missing opportunities unless we learn to recognize and follow what truly matters. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://michaelmehlberg.com/blog/2019/8/24/the-only-two-things-you-need-to-focus-on-what-matters Quotes to ponder: "All the times I had miffed things up. It all made me realize that so many of my failures had happened because either I a) didn’t know where I was going or b) had some distraction beckoning me the in the wrong direction." "Allow these distractions to command your attention and you’ll end up wandering in the wrong direction, lost on the proverbial beach, in danger of being eaten alive." "Even one distraction is too many. So you have to focus on what matters." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Syys 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3737: Colin Wright explores the subtle ways our financial habits shape our choices, opportunities, and sense of freedom. He reveals how aligning money with personal values, not just accumulation, creates a more intentional, fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://exilelifestyle.com/dollars-sense/ Quotes to ponder: "Money is not inherently good or bad, but the way we earn and spend it has repercussions." "When our dollars align with our values, they amplify the kind of life we want to live." "Freedom doesn’t come from how much we make, but from how wisely we use what we have." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Syys 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3736: Stephen Guise explains how principles can serve as powerful guides when detailed planning feels overwhelming or restrictive. By adopting simple rules like the 2-minute rule, acting on anything that improves your life, and consulting your “future self,” you can make better everyday choices, stay consistent, and build momentum without relying solely on rigid schedules. His approach blends the structure of planning with the flexibility of principles to help create lasting progress. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://minihabits.com/how-to-use-principles-instead-of-plans/ Quotes to ponder: “If it takes 2 minutes or less, do it.” “If you’ll regret it tomorrow, don’t do it. If you’ll be thankful for it tomorrow, do it.” “The final principle: If you can ingrain valuable principles into your psyche and follow them, you’ll do great(er) things!” Episode references: Getting Things Done: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0143126563 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Syys 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3735: Paula Pant explores how fear of mistakes often keeps us from making progress, revealing that the real cost lies not in failure but in inaction. She illustrates how reframing errors as stepping stones can unlock growth, resilience, and opportunities that perfectionism will always deny us. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://affordanything.com/one-critical-thing-holding-back/ Quotes to ponder: "Most people don’t fail because they try and it doesn’t work out. They fail because they don’t try at all." "Mistakes are the tuition we pay for the privilege of learning." "If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not making decisions." Episode references: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success: https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322 The Lean Startup: https://www.amazon.com/Lean-Startup-Entrepreneurs-Continuous-Innovation/dp/0307887898 The War of Art: https://www.amazon.com/War-Art-Winning-Creative-Battle/dp/1936891026 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Syys 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3734: Mark Manson unpacks why therapy, journaling, and meditation all reliably boost mental health, despite their different methods. At the core, each helps us step back from our emotions by turning them into something observable, which builds self-awareness and loosens the ego’s grip. This shift from “I am my feelings” to “I am observing my feelings” opens space for clarity, choice, and growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/how-to-get-better Quotes to ponder: "The value of therapy isn’t the therapy. It’s the context. It’s the environment." "There is something mysteriously powerful about verbalizing your thoughts and feelings; it somehow causes them to lose their power over you." "They are three tools for building self-awareness and chipping away at the ego." Episode references: Benjamin Franklin: An American Life by Walter Isaacson: https://www.amazon.com/Benjamin-Franklin-American-Life-Isaacson/dp/074325807X The Diary of Marie Curie: https://www.amazon.com/Diary-Marie-Curie-Autobiographical-Notes/dp/0486470113 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Syys 12min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3733: Marc Chernoff challenges the idea that constant busyness is a badge of honor, showing how our overstuffed schedules and need to appear productive only make life harder and unhappier. By slowing down, letting go of needless busyness, and creating space to breathe, we can finally pause long enough to notice the beauty and meaning we’ve been rushing past. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.marcandangel.com/2023/04/25/your-life-is-harder-and-busier-than-it-has-to-be/ Quotes to ponder: "Busyness is just an illness that makes everything harder than it has to be." "Nearly all of my busyness was an overreaction in my head." "We fill our Instagram, Facebook, and Snapchat feeds, and our calendars, with manufactured busyness to avoid just being exactly who we are, exactly where we are." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Syys 10min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3732: Steve Pavlina reframes the common tension between contentment and ambition by introducing the concept of life as a series of natural cycles. Instead of seeking constant balance, he encourages recognizing whether you're in a phase of expansion or contraction, and aligning your actions accordingly to stay in harmony with your life’s momentum. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/03/cycles-of-life/ Quotes to ponder: "Life isn’t static though. When you take a snapshot 'here is where I am now' view of your life, you reinforce a flawed view of reality." "You don’t balance the two. You cycle between them." "By recognizing what kind of cycle you’re in, you can flow with it instead of fighting it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Syys 9min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3731: Ryan Nicodemus shares how a bold "packing party" experiment helped him uncover the difference between what he owned and what he actually needed. By living out of boxes and unpacking only essentials, he discovered the freedom, clarity, and joy that come from intentional living. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.theminimalists.com/packing/ Quotes to ponder: "Everything else remained packed, taped shut, and left in boxes." "I discovered that I didn’t need much at all." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Syys 12min