underestimated relationship red flags

[video available on spotify] i was on youtube a couple weeks ago looking up modern dating advice, and a buzzword that kept coming up was detachment. at first i kind of ignored it because i was like, t...

12 Maalis 37min

[video available on spotify] you always hear people say "don't quit! persevere! the only way you fail is if you quit!" and you never hear people say "it's okay to quit. sometimes quitting is a necess...

5 Maalis 34min

[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional ad...

26 Helmi 40min

[video available on spotify] let me set the scene for you: it was 9am and i was on my morning walk. everything was going fine until i had a bizarre encounter with a neighbor, and this got me thinking ...

19 Helmi 46min

[video available on spotify] as many of you probably already know, i'm single for the first time in a long time. rather than rushing into my next relationship, this time around i’m committed to learni...

12 Helmi 48min

[video available on Spotify] it’s that time again for me to sit down and share a list of things that i like right now. i go through phases where i become obsessed with something, but then i eventuall...

5 Helmi 44min

[video available on Spotify] it feels like every single trait that i have makes me adverse to rest. resting is incredibly challenging for me. this leads to a cycle of burnout and guilt. but over the ...

29 Tammi 36min

[video available on Spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional a...

22 Tammi 30min