
the detachment rabbit hole
[video available on spotify] i was on youtube a couple weeks ago looking up modern dating advice, and a buzzword that kept coming up was detachment. at first i kind of ignored it because i was like, t...
12 Maalis 37min

knowing when to quit
[video available on spotify] you always hear people say "don't quit! persevere! the only way you fail is if you quit!" and you never hear people say "it's okay to quit. sometimes quitting is a necess...
5 Maalis 34min

finding comfort in yourself, advice session
[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional ad...
26 Helmi 40min

my neighbor hates me
[video available on spotify] let me set the scene for you: it was 9am and i was on my morning walk. everything was going fine until i had a bizarre encounter with a neighbor, and this got me thinking ...
19 Helmi 46min

modern dating advice scares me
[video available on spotify] as many of you probably already know, i'm single for the first time in a long time. rather than rushing into my next relationship, this time around i’m committed to learni...
12 Helmi 48min

my quiet morning routine and other things i like rn
[video available on Spotify] it’s that time again for me to sit down and share a list of things that i like right now. i go through phases where i become obsessed with something, but then i eventuall...
5 Helmi 44min

i think i finally figured out how to rest
[video available on Spotify] it feels like every single trait that i have makes me adverse to rest. resting is incredibly challenging for me. this leads to a cycle of burnout and guilt. but over the ...
29 Tammi 36min

chasing happiness is making you miserable, advice session
[video available on Spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional a...
22 Tammi 30min






















