You Don’t Have to Orgasm: Rethinking Sex & Deeper Connections

This one’s for my dry-hump fans.In this episode, I spoke with Dr. Teresa Johnson, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, to explore sex beyond traditional definitions and to challenge the narratives we’ve been taught. From giving us permission to enjoy the journey and not worry about the destination to topics covering asexuality, porn, and self exploration— Dr. Johnson fills every moment with invaluable nuggets of insight. First, we discuss what sex truly is—not just as a physical act but as an experience deeply connected to our mental, emotional, and relational being. Dr. Johnson expands our understanding of sex, beyond penetration or oral, offering a broader, more inclusive perspective on intimacy and connection.We explore sex within relationships where Dr. Johnson introduces the concept of sexual discrepancies—the differences in desire and sexual needs between partners. She explains how these discrepancies manifest, the strain they can place on relationships, and, most importantly, how couples can & do navigate them in a way that fosters understanding rather than frustration. Stepping back to examine the larger cultural landscape, we also discuss the orgasm gap and the inequities that persist in sexual pleasure, particularly for Women. We break down how porn has shaped unrealistic expectations, especially for cis-men, distorting perceptions of what women actually enjoy. We explore how these misconceptions contribute to unsatisfying sexual experiences and why unlearning them is crucial for more fulfilling connections.For the first time ever, we close the episode with audience Q&A, giving listeners the chance to hear expert advice on their most pressing questions. If you’ve ever wanted to rethink sex, intimacy, and pleasure in a way that actually serves you, this episode will leave you with a fresh perspective and the tools to build more meaningful connections.🔔 Subscribe for more raw, insightful conversations on healing, relationships, and self-discovery!Chapters:5:10 Dr. Teresa Johnson’s Story12:27 Redefining Sex17:28 Sex & Its Meaning To Humans20:20 Sexual Discrepancies25:00 Body Health & Sex27:46 Asexuality31:16 Desire Differences Between Men & Women48:30 Navigating Desire Differences: Sensate Practice55:01 The Orgasm Gap59:37 Porn in Sex Education1:07:05 Reframing Our Society’s View On Sex1:16:02 Audience Q&A1:31:33 Connect with Dr. Teresa_______________________▶ Self-Paced Online Courses to Enhance Sexual Intimacy:(Use Code 'stori20' for 20% off): https://www.drteresajohnson.com/courses_______________________▶ Connect with guest Dr. Teresa Johnson, PLLCWebsite: https://www.drteresajohnson.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/teresa-johnson-phd/_______________________▶ Resources Mentioned:OMGyeshttps://www.omgyes.com/Dipsea audio eroticahttps://www.dipseastories.com/_______________________▶ To become a sponsor of the AHDTMYF? podcast or for business inquiries, email business@storidaniel.com_______________________▶Use hashtag #AHDTMYF on all social media channels to join the conversation!_______________________▶ Connect with Stori & AHDTMYF? Community:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@storileeannInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ahdtmyf?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==_______________________Remember To Be Kind To Yourself_______________________▶Disclaimer: Before implementing anything in regard to your health and wellbeing, please consult your health professional. Thank you._______________________#intimacyadvice #sextherapist #AHDTMYF