Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead

Why Your Toddler Can’t Hear You in a Meltdown & What to Do Instead

"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!

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What You Do in Your Child’s 'Big Emotional Moments' Changes Everything

In this episode of the Toddler Toolkit podcast, we dive into the power of holding space for your toddler's big emotions without trying to fix or debate them. Learn three core practices: holding space, matching and leading the energy down, and repairing over perfection. Discover practical steps to calm your child's nervous system, turning meltdowns into teachable moments. Get insights on how to use your presence, body language, and tone to create safety and connection. Plus, hear a real-life story about handling playground dynamics effectively. For more resources, check out the free guide on solving toddler struggles in the show notes.

00:00 Welcome to Toddler Toolkit Podcast
00:03 Understanding the Power of Holding Space
00:52 Mindset Shift: You Don't Have to Fix Every Meltdown
01:50 Core Practice 1: Holding Space
05:32 Core Practice 2: Match, Then Lead the Energy Down
06:45 Core Practice 3: Repair Beats Perfection
08:15 Real-Life Example: Holding Space at the Park
12:22 Five Lessons from the Story
15:47 Final Thoughts and Resources

"If you’re struggling with toddler tantrums and behaviors like hitting & not listening... I have a free guide for you! It’s called The Tantrum and Behavior Guide: 7 Toddler Struggles and How to Solve Them Fast—It's HERE!

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Heather has her M.Ed, and a proud Twin Mama of busy toddlers. She's the Toddler Toolkit Podcast Host, a co-author of the #1 International Best Selling Book, The Perfectly Imperfect Family & the founder of the Happy Toddler, Confident Parent Cohort and Course. You might've tried advice tailored for one child, but that's not our journey, right? With a decade of teaching experience under her belt, she's seen it all – from toddlers to teenagers in the classroom. Now, as a parent to toddlers, she's experiencing the flip side of the coin. She's discovered a toolbox to help parents with everything toddler times two!

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