EP. 22: ADHD People-Pleasing Explained - When 'Being Nice' Is Really About Staying Safe | ADHD with Jenna Free

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Chapters

00:00 Understanding the Fawn Response in ADHD
02:59 The Impact of Survival Mode on Relationships
07:07 Breaking Free from the Fawn Response
12:11 Practical Strategies to Overcome People-Pleasing
19:16 Embracing Vulnerability and Taking Up Space

Summary

In this episode of the ADHD with Jenna Free podcast, I explore the often-overlooked fawn response in survival mode. I discuss how this response manifests in behaviors like people-pleasing and avoiding conflict, and how to recognize and address these patterns for regulation and increased executive functioning. I go over practical strategies for you to break free from the fawn response, advocate for yourself, and foster genuine connections with others.

Takeaways

• Fawn is a response to feeling unsafe and is often overlooked.
• Being in survival mode can lead to people-pleasing behaviors.
• Setting boundaries is essential for regulation
• Asking for help is a crucial step in overcoming the fawn response.
• Taking up space and expressing needs creates connections.
• Practicing vulnerability can lead to stronger relationships.
• It's safe to say no and prioritize your own needs.

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