Should You Text Your Ex? 🚩 Bestie Secrets, Betrayals & Breakup Songs | Get The Gist ft. Mnelia

This week on Get the Gist, the girls are joined by the amazing Mnelia, and it’s everything you didn’t know you needed: chaos, nostalgia, style, money, and all the debates about love and lifestyle.We’re throwing it back to Abercrombie fits, Paul’s Boutique bags, and Apple Bottom jeans (yes, they were real). One of us even sang on stage with Flo Rida at age 10 — the same day Michael Jackson died 👀 — and somehow flopped a record deal in the process.Then the gist gets wild, but also real: • Are nicknames cute, or can they go way too far? (Belly…🙆🏽‍♀️) • Does “just reply to his story” really work as a flirting hack? • Is there a real “babe stage” in relationships? • Are men with money actually safer partners, or is it all ego? • Do designer fits, luxury cars, or heated seats really help you get further in dating? • And what do your emojis really say about you?Of course, there’s still chaos: funeral rules (some of us are snitching 😅), the “obtuse” vocab debate, and whether clubbing with only the girls is a vibe or a violation.It’s nostalgic, honest, chaotic, and fun — and it’s for everyone who wants the gist on lifestyle, love, and identity in 2025.We’re talking:👖 Apple Bottom nostalgia & 2000s fashion fits🎤 Flo Rida, MJ’s passing & missed record deals💸 Designer hype, flex culture & walking promotions📱 Emojis, nicknames & the “babe stage”😂 Fake laughs, flirting hacks & modern love truths⚰️ Funeral rules & vocab chaos💃 Girls-only clubbing — vibe or violation?🔥 Heated seats vslove letters🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 Elo 52min

This week on Get the Gist, we’re diving into chaos, culture, and straight-up truths.“See it. Say it. Sorted.” — TFL says safety, but is it really just snitching? Roz had her own Top Boy moment (kinda), we talk about armed Gardaí (yes, they’ve got guns but it’s a whole process), and why the streets sometimes feel like a Netflix script.Rí’s comment section got messy but Princess was quick with the rescue. Then the real talk starts: six counties, Gaeilge slip-ups (accountable queens only), racism in Ireland hitting an all-time high, and migrant attacks that are too real to ignore. “Get them out?” Or maybe remember when the Irish were once told no blacks, no dogs, no Irish.We ask the bigger questions: what does it mean to be “millionaires back home”? Why does Ireland forget its own fight against injustice? From the Troubles, IRA & Orange Order to Kneecap reigniting pride in the Irish language, this episode goes from banter to big picture real quick.Oh, and with 950k people on social welfare — 88% of them Irish nationals — we want to know: who’s really the problem?Enjoy your weekly subscription to the Gist.⸻We’re talking:☕ Snitching or safety? “See it. Say it. Sorted.”🔫 Gardaí with guns (but it’s complicated)💬 Rí vs her comment section — Princess saves the day🌍 Racism, migrant attacks & Ireland’s hypocrisy🍀 Six counties talk & Gaeilge pride (with Kneecap’s help)💸 “Millionaires back home” & immigrant realities📊 950k on welfare — 88% Irish nationals… who’s the problem?🕊️ From “No blacks, no dogs, no Irish” to modern injusticeSubscribe, like, and join the convo in the comments. Let’s get into it.🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️https://ngl.link/getthegistpodcasttAnother WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨⁠https://linktr.ee/gtgp...Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Elo 25min

In this week’s episode of Get the Gist, the girls are all over the map — literally and spiritually. We start in London, “the land of opportunity” (and overpriced 99 cones), before tackling everything from UK accents that “sound like lies” to why rent is out of control.From there, we dive deep into faith, ego, and the Catholic Church in Ireland — plus the rise of performative Christianity. Are we chasing God’s presence or just the aesthetic of modesty and marriage?We unpack how faith changes your relationships, the controversial “wait until marriage” debate, and whether marriage still holds the same weight in 2025. Also: prayers, demons, pastors throwing indirects, and why knowing Jesus doesn’t cancel the human experience.And yes… someone has a dilemma about waiting for “research.” 👀We’re talking:🙏 Faith vs optics — is your pastor preaching truth or just throwing shade?💒 Marriage trends — concrete commitment or just trending content?🍦 London life — 99 cones for €3.50 and the £13.50 toll shocker💬 Why the UK accent is giving liar👗 Modesty culture — empowering or performative?❤️ Sex, soul ties, and using intimacy wisely📖 Why reading your Bible matters more than your Instagram bioSubscribe, like, and join the convo in the comments. Let’s get into it.🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️https://ngl.link/getthegistpodcasttAnother WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨⁠https://linktr.ee/gtgp...Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Elo 1h 5min

This week on Get the Gist, we’re giving you chaos, closure, and a whole lot of truth bombs.RnB Slow Jams 2024? The girls give their first impression of Mr Misunderstood himself — Margs (love the name Princess), before diving straight into the moment you’ve all been waiting for: the Roz x Margs Shadeborough beef gets addressed. They made it out the mud! But are they really good now?Then the real talk begins. Is monogamy outdated? Can you be poly with your body, monogamous with your heart and still stay faithful? Men could cheat and get forgiven quicker if they just told the truth — but is that honest or just manipulative?“If you’re not staying, what’s the point of the conversation?”“You left after he cheated? Maybe your love wasn’t strong enough…”Is it giving toxic? Or is Margs just saying what a lot of men think?We also unpack power dynamics in dating — why men only love women when they’re not chasing, and why women hold the key (and the power). Plus: safe sex, real consequences, and the cheating scandal in Roz’s hometown that left more than just hearts broken — HIV was involved.Add in some Love Island chat (yes, Black Irish girls are elite), tattoo debates (can you really put stickers on a Bentley?), and a group chat story that will have you questioning everything about your relationship.This one’s messy. Enjoy your weekly subscription to the Gist! ⸻We’re talking:☕ Roz vs Margs: Shadeborough beef finally addressed💔 “Poly with the body, loyal with the heart” — myth or mindset?💬 “If you’re not staying, there’s nothing to talk about” — toxic or valid?💉 Cheating scandal that ended in HIV — let’s talk safe sex🧠 Why women forgive quicker when they get the full truth📱 Group chat named after your girl? Yeah, that’s wild💍 Can you be a wife without the ring?💅 Tattoos — still trending or are we off it?🖤 Being Black in Ireland, Love Island picks & elite Black girls🐾 Man is dog. Gyal is wicked. And we’ve got stories to prove it.Subscribe, like, and join the convo in the comments. Let’s get into it.🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️https://ngl.link/getthegistpodcasttAnother WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨⁠https://linktr.ee/gtgp...Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Elo 1h 2min

In this week’s episode, the girls dive into everything from misunderstood Irish accents to modern mating rituals (is asking for your Snapchat the new courtship?). Roz fires back at the viral “broke women” reel and the gang debates whether asking for things you can’t afford is a red flag or a life lesson.They unpack Flo — yes, the period tracker that’s password-protected but apparently owned by a man and sharing data with Meta. Risky business if you’re “researching” for a baby and leaving it all up to Aunt Flo…Also on the table: pick-me culture, hyper-independence in relationships, and why some dads only send 3 texts a year. Plus, a dilemma you cannot miss — what do you do when your boyfriend calls you his ex’s name… TWICE?P.S we missed you!!We’re talking:👀 A boyfriend who called his girlfriend his ex’s name — not once, but TWICE📱 Period tracking apps that are sharing your data (Flo, we need to talk)🍻 Modern mating calls — is buying a drink enough? Or is asking for your Snapchat the new romance?💬 Dads who text 3 times a year (yes, we’re unpacking those daddy issues)🧠 Roz responds to the viral “broke women need to stop asking for things” reel💅 Pick-me accusations, hyper-independence, and whether you should ever ask for something you can’t afford🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

31 Heinä 36min

This week on Get The Gist, Princess is BACK from Miami and Heuston with some wild stories… 👀 From being called Big Mama (and loving it) to spotting BBLs that actually look real, the nightlife reviews are in — and they’re unfiltered.We get into everything from adult clubs where people do what others do for FREE 🤯, to why Sika’s done paying for girls in the club. And yes, he might cheat if he had a girlfriend — he said what he said!💥 We also dive into: • Can you wear sliders in the club?! (Be serious.) • When YOU’RE the only thing ageing in the rave 🥲 • Sika in love?! But still in his villain era?! 💔🦹🏾‍♂️ • The reality of dating your female friends • Irish nightlife: what’s popping and what needs to be CANCELLED 🚫🎙️ Gist of the Week:We unpack Anthony Joshua’s viral cheating quote and why Princess’s appearance on Fresh & Fit didn’t go down how you’d think. She shares the real behind-the-scenes and why you can’t actually converse on that platform.This episode is bold, unfiltered, funny AF, and hits the real conversations you wish you had with your friends.👇 Drop your dilemmas in the comments – it’s anonymous.❤️ Like, subscribe & join the GTG fam. New episodes weekly!#GetTheGist #Podcast #IrishPodcast #FreshAndFit #AnthonyJoshua #NightlifeReview #DatingRealTalk #ClubCulture #MiamiVlog #SikaUnfiltered #PodcastTea #BBLTruths #VillainEra #HonestConvos🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Heinä 1h 37min

We’re back with a duo episode this week—and yes, we’re missing our third Gister, PRINCESS, but don’t worry, the chaos continues!We catch up on our week: adjusting to our new 9–5s, settling into completely opposite work styles (one of us is camera-on, the other is not a chance), and trying to balance the job that pays with the passion that fuels us. Spoiler alert: it’s not easy.💼 Can you really do both? And why does every meeting feel like a performance review?🚗 Road rage is real—and the traffic wars of 2025 are getting out of hand. Buckle up.🧠 Then we get personal with a convo on being neurodivergent. From ADHD to self-diagnosing and the gender gap in diagnosis—we talk SLAY-DHD, overthinking, and why so many women are missed by the system.👀 Gist of the Week • Diddy and the case that’s shaking up the internet • Billykiss has joined Love Island?! • Our hot takes on Love Island USA (because… what is going on)💌 Dilemma Time • “My parents keep asking me for money, but I’m trying to save for a house—help!” • “My partner refuses to use protection… but I do not want a baby right now.” • Plus: Princesse’s wild Miami experience and our thoughts on the viral “provider vs. partner” debate—are women wrong for wanting a man to match (or exceed) their lifestyle?As always, we keep it honest, unfiltered, and full of laughs. Let us know what you think in the comments or your own dilemmas—we might just read yours next.🚨WE WANT YOUR DILEMMAS 🚨Is there something you want to get off your chest? We are here to listen! If it’s a vent, advice or a statement your GTG sisters are here to listen. Don’t worry it’s anonymous 🤫 ⬇️Hit play, laugh with us, learn something new, and don’t forget to subscribe.We loved recording this one — hope you love listening just as much! and tune in next week to Another WEEKLY SUBSCRIPTION TO THE GIST✨Instagram: @Getthegistpodcast TikTok: @GetthegistpodcastTwitter: @gtgpodcastt_ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Heinä 1h 9min