Mark & Vanessa Went On A Coffee Date In Pacifica Only For Vanessa To Ghost.

Lauren called us about Chris after what felt like a promising drinks date in San Carlos. She said he was funny, relaxed, and easy to talk to, with great back-and-forth energy. They chatted about travel, favorite shows, and how they like to spend their weekends. The conversation flowed, the vibe was there, and Lauren left feeling hopeful. Then… nothing.

27 Tammi 5min

After dinner in Campbell, Alex thought things were going really well with Monica until she vanished. He told us she was confident, funny, and easy to talk to in that effortless way that feels rare these days. They swapped bad dating app stories, commiserated over dating burnout, and talked honestly about what they’re looking for now. Alex said it felt refreshing… so the silence afterward hit extra hard.

26 Tammi 5min

A cozy night in downtown Campbell: drinks, tacos, and a dog in a sweater. Eli thought he and Marissa had something real—shared laughs, shared snacks, and shared love for dogs and Trader Joe’s. But a few days later, she disappeared without a word. What went wrong?

23 Tammi 6min

Mark hit us up confused, and honestly, fair enough. His date with Julia checked all the boxes: drinks and dinner on the water in Point Richmond, a peaceful vibe, good conversation, no awkward moments. He said Julia was smart, calm, and easy to talk to, and that it felt nice to take things slow for once. He left thinking the date was solid. So why the ghost?

22 Tammi 6min

Kyle thought his Hayes Valley date with Natalie was a total win—great banter, travel chaos stories, dive-bar love, and matching “chaos goblin” siblings. But the next day? Nothing. Ghosted.

21 Tammi 5min

Adam thought he had finally cracked the code: a calm coffee date, genuine conversation, and a connection that felt effortless. Meeting Nicole in Berkeley, they bonded over childhood pets, quiet mornings, and the universal need for caffeine before becoming functional humans. Nothing flashy—just comfortable and real. But when Nicole stopped responding, Adam was left confused. This episode explores the disconnect between how a date feels and how it ends.

20 Tammi 5min

An online match leads to a movie date in San Jose—snacks, nonstop laughter, and instant chemistry. Everything felt right… until Kira ghosted Brandon. We break down the date and ask the question everyone’s thinking: what happened?

16 Tammi 7min

Rachel called us confused after Brian stopped responding following what she thought was a great drinks date in Danville. She felt an instant, comfortable connection but Brian says something small caught his attention about ten minutes in, and he hasn’t stopped thinking about it since.

15 Tammi 7min