Tamara Ghosted Josh Over Tapas

A confident, funny, direct date. Honest conversations about expectations and pet peeves. Then nothing. Sam calls us after Erica disappears post-drinks in San Jose, and we dig into the ghosting mystery...

4 Helmi 6min

When “open and honest” feels right… until it doesn’t. Derek calls in after a Redwood City dinner that felt meaningful and real — maybe a little deep, but not too deep (or was it?). Olivia vanished, an...

3 Helmi 6min

A Saratoga dinner. Great banter. Shared burnout. Zero follow-up texts. Tyler calls in confused after a date that felt light, fun, and promising—and we dig into why dating someone “normal” somehow feel...

2 Helmi 6min

Mark thought he had a solid first date—drinks turned into appetizers, the conversation flowed, and Alyssa was sharp, funny, and refreshingly direct. So when she stopped responding the very next day, h...

30 Tammi 5min

Ryan calls in wondering how a night that felt that good could end in radio silence. After drinks in Concord, he felt an easy connection with Brooke — confident, funny, and refreshingly real. They talk...

29 Tammi 9min

Kevin calls us after a smooth cocktail date in Clairmont with Ionna (pronounced Yanna—Greek!), a woman he describes as stylish, thoughtful, and easy to be around. They bonded over travel, favorite foo...

28 Tammi 28min

Lauren called us about Chris after what felt like a promising drinks date in San Carlos. She said he was funny, relaxed, and easy to talk to, with great back-and-forth energy. They chatted about trave...

27 Tammi 5min

After dinner in Campbell, Alex thought things were going really well with Monica until she vanished. He told us she was confident, funny, and easy to talk to in that effortless way that feels rare the...

26 Tammi 5min