3. The Price of Looking ‘Normal’
AuDHD Sparks7 Elo 2025

3. The Price of Looking ‘Normal’

You know how sometimes you feel this bone deep exhaustion that’s different from regular tired? The kind where you run two errands and feel wiped for the entire day? That’s the invisible labor of masking - and it’s likely costing you more energy than you realize. When you’re AuDHD, you're doing double duty. Hiding ADHD struggles while suppressing Autistic sensory needs. Scripting conversations while translating what others really mean. Looking calm while your nervous system works overtime. In ...

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28. Making Up is Hard (Repair & PDA)

28. Making Up is Hard (Repair & PDA)

What does repair look like when both of you are AuDHD — and both of you are PDA? Not the stuff the books say. The real stuff. The texting instead of talking, the AI translation, the sitting across the...

19 Maalis 43min

27. When Your Partner is ND Too

27. When Your Partner is ND Too

Ahh…neurodiverse love. When you're AuDHD and your partner is also neurodivergent, being understood doesn't make it easier. It just makes it different. Two ND nervous systems create their own ecosystem...

12 Maalis 44min

26. Peopled Out by Tuesday

26. Peopled Out by Tuesday

What if the coffee dates, the group chats, the "good friend" checklist — what if none of that was designed for you? This episode is about exploring where our social spoons are really going and redesig...

5 Maalis 35min

25. That Constant Scattered Feeling

25. That Constant Scattered Feeling

You know that feeling — like your thoughts are fractured, your brain feels chaotic, and there's always a low hum that you wish you could turn off. You want to feel grounded, peaceful. So you reach fo...

26 Helmi 35min

24. Less Stuff, More Exhale

24. Less Stuff, More Exhale

You know that feeling when you walk into a space and can finally breathe? Or when you open a closet and feel overwhelmed before you even see what's there? In this episode, we’re talking minimalism…or ...

19 Helmi 50min

23. Home Base + Escape Hatch

23. Home Base + Escape Hatch

As an AuDHDer, it’s easy to feel trapped between two impossible choices: stay in one place and feel stagnant, or live the nomadic life and feel dysregulated. But what if there's a third option? This ...

12 Helmi 49min

22. Independence Is Overrated: Multi-Gen Living

22. Independence Is Overrated: Multi-Gen Living

I was sitting there staring at the numbers. A coaching practice that was actually healthy for my nervous system. Current rent prices and cost of living. The math didn't work. If I wanted to stay out...

5 Helmi 39min

21. Childfree & AuDHD

21. Childfree & AuDHD

I was in my late thirties, recovering from a major AuDHD burnout. And in the final reckoning with the question I'd labored over for a decade: Was I going to have kids? I didn't trust my capacity. I d...

29 Tammi 28min

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