Breaking the Silence: How Shame and Emotional Disconnection Are Quietly Destroying Men’s Mental Health with Mordy Gottlieb

In this episode of Healthy Waves, host Avik is joined by Tommy Hines and Dylan Boland for a grounded, honest conversation about the beliefs that quietly keep us stuck in fear, hustle, and self doubt. This episode is for anyone who feels productive but exhausted, successful yet disconnected, or driven by pressure instead of purpose. Together, the guests explore how false beliefs shape identity, how imagination influences reality, and how to shift from survival mode into conscious creation with clarity and self respect. About the Guest Tommy Hines is known as the Perfect Home Guy and has spent decades helping people rethink both home renovation and inner transformation. Dylan Boland is a coach at Caden Academy, focused on conscious creation, imagination, and inner alignment. Key Takeaways Survival mode often looks responsible but is driven by fear, not alignment Awareness is the first real sign that change has already begun You cannot erase old habits, only replace them with new ones Emotional reactions are biological, but your next thought is a choice Boundaries can coexist with compassion when you separate behavior from worth How to Connect With the Guest Tommy Hines: https://www.perfecthomeguy.com/media  Dylan Boland: https://cadenacademy.com Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mentalwellness #selfworth #innerhealing #consciousliving #mindsetshift #emotionalhealth #personalgrowth #selfawareness #healingjourney #spiritualgrowth #innerwork #sovereignty

12 Jan 57min

In Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Charu sits down with entrepreneur Paul Roberts to talk about the quiet moments after a setback, when your mind tries to turn a hard moment into your identity. This episode is for founders, leaders, and builders who feel pressure to “push through” even when they are running on empty. Paul shares how to return to your “why,” triage problems without panic, stop wasting energy on worry, and rebuild confidence through small habits and decision filters that protect your time and values. About the Guest: Paul Roberts has built companies, taken two public, and raised over $130 million. He is now building GoodByte, a mission-driven product that turns everyday meals into measurable impact. Key Takeaways: Use your “why” as a North Star to stop setbacks from feeling permanent Triage fast: “Is this truly the end, or a solvable problem?” Convert worry into action, even imperfect action reduces mental load Write a post-setback list: what happened, what to improve, what to fix Feel the emotion, then move forward with a clear plan Protect your time with a simple filter: benefit for them, for you, or for the greater good How to Connect With the Guest: Website: https://www.goodbite.charity/  LinkedIn: Paul Roberts App: launching early January 2026 on Google Play and Apple Store Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #resilience #leadershipmindset #foundermentalhealth #entrepreneurlife #burnoutprevention #emotionalfitness #decisionmaking #habits #stressmanagement #purpose #mindsetshift #wellnessatwork

12 Jan 16min

In Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sayan sits down with Derrick Van Mell to unpack a truth most people feel but rarely name: leadership can shape your nervous system as much as your workload. Derrick explains how unclear direction, neglect, and careless comments can quietly erode confidence and safety at work. This episode is for anyone dealing with a difficult manager, recovering from workplace stress, or stepping into leadership themselves. You’ll learn how ethical, competent leadership reduces harm, why shared management language matters, and what employees can do to protect themselves without escalating conflict. About the Guest: Derrick Van Mell is the founder and principal of the Center for Management Terms and Practices, a standards body for general management. He’s also the author of Atoms and Orchestras and shares frameworks like The Index, the Milwaukee Model, and the Pledge of Managerial Power. Key Takeaways: Bad bosses often cause “invisible injury” through neglect, unclear direction, and public disrespect. Not all harm is intentional, many managers were never taught ethical use of authority. Strong leadership means putting people first, not ego, control, or winning arguments. If a boss is fundamentally decent, use calm courage: ask clarifying questions about tone and intent. “Parental mind” works upward too: recognize what your manager does well to shift behavior safely. Management is not for everyone, rewards are delayed and abstract, so self-awareness matters. How to Connect With the Guest: Website: https://theindex.net/  Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #toxicworkplace #leadershipdevelopment #ethicalleadership #workplacewellness #burnoutrecovery #mentalhealthatwork #healthyboundaries #workplaceculture #managementskills #emotionalwellbeing #stressmanagement #psychologicalsafety #careerhealth #professionalgrowth #selfleadership

12 Jan 24min

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sayan sits down with author and indie publisher Annabel Youens to challenge the “go it alone” hero narrative and explore the heroine’s journey, where healing and success grow through community. This conversation is for anyone feeling burned out by hustle-first stories, navigating a midlife identity shift, or craving a more grounded path to purpose. You will hear how stories shape mental health, why collaboration reduces loneliness, and how self-trust can return when you listen inward. About the Guest: Annabel Youens is the author of the debut speculative novel Thread Traveler and the founder of Sortline Press, publishing transformation stories for women in midlife. She previously spent 25 years in tech entrepreneurship, including an early role at AppBooks.com. Key Takeaways: Notice where the “solo hero” mindset is isolating you Reframe midlife as a second-act doorway, not a breakdown Ask: What did your 17-year-old self want that you postponed Create a daily practice that helps you hear your inner voice Replace “winning” with “collaborating” in one real-life situation How to Connect With the Guest: Website: https://linkly.link/2Ksbq  Substack: Saved by the Spell Book: Thread Traveler (available wherever books are sold) Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #heroinejourney #midlifereinvent #selftrust #communityhealing #identityshift #mentalwellness #storytellingmatters #womenwriters #indiepublishing #adhdawareness #creativepractice #mindfulliving #personalgrowth

11 Jan 22min

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik sits down with Dr. Darren Clair to break down a simple truth most of us feel but struggle to live: you can’t build a steady mind without a supportive lifestyle. They get practical about what to do when you feel overwhelmed, and why small habits work better than “complete life overhaul” plans. This conversation is for anyone feeling stressed, tired, anxious, or stuck in a loop of quick fixes. You’ll learn how movement, sleep hygiene, and tiny stress resets can improve mood fast, and why shifting from reactive care to proactive vitality is the real long game. About the Guest: Dr. Darren Clair is a dual board certified physician in anesthesiology and lifestyle medicine and the founder of Vibrance Health (2003). He is the author of Creating a Life of Vibrance and focuses on proactive, practical health habits. Key Takeaways: Start with 20 minutes of consistent aerobic exercise to support mood and reduce stress Do exercise without constant stimulation to give your brain true quiet time Improve sleep hygiene: avoid phone scrolling before bed and allow time after dinner Reduce or avoid evening alcohol to support serotonin, melatonin, and deeper sleep Use micro stress resets: a 10-minute post-dinner walk or 3 to 4 slow belly breaths Proactive health wins when you value “feeling good tomorrow” over short-term cravings How to Connect With the Guest: Darren Clair's Website Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #mentalhealthpodcast #wellnesspodcast #lifestylemedicine #stressmanagement #sleephealth #exerciseformood #anxietyrelief #burnoutrecovery #habits #selfcaretips #mindbodyconnection #proactivehealth #healthyhabits #resilience

11 Jan 25min

In Healthy Waves, host Yusuf sits down with Dr. Jonathan Locust Jr. to unpack what burnout reveals that “success” can hide, and how consciousness practices can support a real life reset. They get practical about early warning signals, inner guidance, and protecting yourself when you are vulnerable and healing. This episode is for anyone feeling drained, reactive, or stuck in high achieving mode while quietly running out of energy. You will leave with simple tools like dream reflection, breath releases, and a grounded framework for discernment in holistic spaces. About the Guest: Dr. Jonathan Locust Jr. is the founder of ConciRise. He has a PhD in theory and social foundations and has worked in psychometrics, behavioral analysis, and systems level human research. Key Takeaways: Spot burnout early: fatigue, low motivation, and “not myself” reactions Use dreams as data: track themes and reflect on what they are signaling Raise discernment when seeking holistic support: look for vetted practitioners Try active imagination: personify a habit or urge and have a written dialogue Use breath as a reset: inhale what supports you, exhale what no longer serves you How to Connect With the Guest: Website: https://www.conscirise.com/ LinkedIn | Instagram | YouTube Learn more about ConsciRise and join the community for conscious seekers and practitioners. Facebook Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #burnoutrecovery #mindbodyspirit #consciousness #dreamwork #activeimagination #breathwork #holistichealing #discernment #mentalwellness #personalgrowth #mindfulness #healingjourney

9 Jan 25min

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Yusuf sits down with Stan Kurtz, founder of Quantum Research, to explore why so many people feel foggy, wired, inflamed, or stuck, even when they are trying to live “healthy.” This conversation is for anyone dealing with chronic stress, low energy, anxious loops, or persistent brain fog and wondering what else might be driving it. Stan shares how he uses microscopy, metabolic mapping, and pattern analysis to look for possible stressors like water-related contaminants, heavy metals, pesticide residues, and long-lasting medication remnants, plus why nervous system regulation can change how we think and respond fast. About the Guest: Stan Kurtz is the founder of Quantum Research. His work uses microscopy, metabolic mapping, and pattern analysis to study factors that may interfere with clarity and performance. His journey began after his son was diagnosed with autism. Key Takeaways: If your mind keeps looping on the past or future, ask what is driving fight-or-flight. Common “load factors” he looks for include heavy metals and pesticide residues. Water quality matters more than people think, so be intentional about what you drink. Regulation can shift your ability to problem-solve even when circumstances stay hard. Consider tracking patterns (sleep, stress, digestion, focus) before chasing quick fixes. How to Connect With the Guest: http://www.stansrecoveries.com/ Stan’s Recovery Instagram Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #brainfog #stressrelief #nervoussystemregulation #wellnessjourney #mentalclarity #holisticwellness #metabolichealth #detoxsupport #mindbodyconnection #healingjourney #anxietyrelief #burnoutrecovery #biohacking #healthpodcast #mentalhealthpodcast

9 Jan 28min

In this Healthy Mind, Healthy Life episode, host Sayan sits down with author Michael Dugan to explore a simple truth: how you show up shapes what you attract, especially when life feels loud and fast. This one is for leaders, founders, creators, and anyone who feels stretched by pressure, constant notifications, and the AI era. You will learn how calm presence creates trust, how to spot opportunity when others spiral, and a practical framework to steady your inner state. About the Guest: Michael Dugan is the author of Turning Snowflakes into Diamonds and creator of the Becoming Diamond Framework. He has logged 2,000+ hours as a professional trainer with a major automotive group. Key Takeaways: Use calm presence to create trust before you speak Train attention so you see opportunities others miss Practice “Love, Integrate, Flow, Evolve” as daily emotional leadership Replace ego-judgment with understanding to increase influence Try the 10-second “frequency check” before conversations How to Connect With the Guest: Book: Amazon (also Audible, Kindle, Hardback) Website: https://www.becomingdiamond.com/  Programs: Diamond Manifesto, 30-Day Diamond Sprint Social: TikTok, Facebook, Instagram You'll find Michael's book "Turning Snowflakes Into Diamonds," along with free tools and training to help you turn pressure into power in your own life. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters. 👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey. Contact: 💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™ 📧 Email: https://www.podhub.club/ 📍 Based in: India & USA 🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik 🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest 📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ #podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #emotionalintelligence #leadershipmindset #highperformancehabits #mindfulleadership #stressmanagement #calmpresence #personalgrowthjourney #selfmastery #resiliencebuilding #focusandclarity #frequency #mindsetcoaching #innerpeace

7 Jan 20min