Why Most People Aren’t Attracted to What’s Good for Them, ft. Leading matchmaker

In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD welcomes Dr. Frankie Bashan, a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and matchmaker, to unpack the complexities of modern dating, attachment styles, and lasting love. Together, they explore psychological patterns that sabotage relationships, the impact of dating apps and unrealistic expectations, and how to navigate kinks, fantasies, and communication in intimate partnerships. Listeners will discover science-based insights and actionable advice for finding meaningful connections, improving their love lives, and embracing sexual exploration. Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:02:42 Psychology meets matchmaking 00:06:15 Modern dating challenges 00:12:08 Masculinity, femininity & relationships 00:23:35 Sexual fluidity explained 00:27:52 Dating apps vs. real connections 00:40:27 Sex surrogates overview 00:51:40 Exploring non-monogamy trends 00:55:54 Navigating sexual kinks 01:05:04 Anal sex tips Stay connected with Dr. Frankie Bashan on social media for daily insights and updates. Don’t miss out—follow her now and check out these links! INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/drfrankiebashan/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/drfrankiebashan/ YOUTUBE - https://www.youtube.com/@drfrankiebashan X - https://x.com/drfrankiebashan?lang=en LITTLE GAY BOOK’S IG - https://www.instagram.com/littlegaybookmatchmaking/?hl=en Little Gay Book's upcoming speed dating events - https://littlegaybook.com/speed-dating-events/ Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices