Beyond Mindfulness: Understanding the Emotional Needs That Drive Us with Dr. J.D. Pincus

Is mindfulness enough to heal emotional pain—or are we missing something deeper? In Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, hosted by Yusuf, we explore why simply observing emotions may not resolve them.

This episode is for anyone feeling stuck despite practicing awareness or meditation. Dr. J.D. Pincus shares a powerful framework around 12 core emotional needs, explaining how unmet needs—like safety, belonging, autonomy, and justice—shape our emotional distress. You’ll learn how to move from managing feelings to understanding what they’re truly asking for, and how meeting those needs can create real, lasting well-being.

About the Guest: Dr. J.D. Pincus is a social psychologist and author of The Emotionally Agile Brain. He developed a peer-reviewed framework identifying 12 core emotional needs that drive human behavior and well-being.

Episode Chapters: 00:00 – Why “just meditate” may not be enough 02:22 – Emotional intelligence vs unmet needs 07:03 – The limits of mindfulness alone 12:06 – The 4 domains of emotional needs 15:31 – Are emotions constructed or real signals? 18:10 – The 12 needs explained 19:24 – A simple question to reduce stress

Key Takeaways:

• Emotions signal unmet needs—not random reactions

• Awareness without action can keep you stuck

• Psychological safety and belonging are foundational

• Stress often hides a blocked emotional need

• Ask: “What need is this feeling pointing to?”

How to Connect With the Guest: Book: The Emotionally Agile Brain (Amazon, Barnes & Noble) Website: https://agilebrain.com/

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