Bonus: Advice with Mattie & Calvin

Bonus: Advice with Mattie & Calvin

Happy Trans Eve of Snack! Tuck chats with Mattie Lubchansky & Calvin Kasulke about how to know whether you're on a date, deal with ambivalence towards certain HRT effects, and cope with the fact that you didn't transition earlier. (Also: trebuchets, glory holes, and nonbinary Donald Duck.)

Listen to the full episode on Patreon to hear us discuss whether you should tell your husband about your affair(!!), whether you should flee the country(!), and how to explain FFS to your cis wife. We also share our favorite memories from the Gender Ordeal tour, including the time we met a piss ghost(!!!).

Find Mattie on No Gods No Mayors and Temporal Culture War. Find Calvin around town idk.

Submit advice questions or AMA prompts via our new form for a future episode like this one!

Senior Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Additional Music: Blue Dot Sessions

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Bonus: Trans Day of Snack 2026

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Episode 196: Aren Aizura

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Episode 195: Ash Tifa

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