Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 05:07 How to let go of the things that’s killing you inside?
  • 10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don’t
  • 19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?
  • 24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can’t love us back?


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