Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 56: The Hardest Time For a Birth Mother

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 56: The Hardest Time For a Birth Mother

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 56: The Hardest Time For a Birth Mother For one woman the most difficult time may be walking through the door of the adoption agency, having made the choice to place her baby for adoption. For another it may be choosing the adoptive family, worrying that she won’t choose the right one. Another may really struggle with telling friends, family members and co-workers about her adoption choice. Another may struggle with an ongoing battle in her head regarding how she is in a place in her life where adoption is the best choice for her and her baby. A common thread is leaving the hospital and saying good bye to their baby. They have already experienced the trauma of labor and delivery, (yes trauma.) And then choosing how much time to spend with their baby and then saying goodbye to their baby can be another traumatic moment. Because saying goodbye at the hospital is one of the hardest aspects of adoption, even comprehending it hurts. We can dive a little deeper. When a birth mother chooses open adoption, if they have a good relationship spending time together at the hospital helps in many aspects. Seeing the adoptive family with the baby helps some, it may bring peace in the future to know that your baby will be well taken care of and loved to the moon and back. When discharge happens, I have seen many a birth mother want to leave asap. Sometimes Birth mother and baby leave at the same time.. As I have stated before, is very important for any birth mother to not leave empty-handed, so a vase of flowers or a teddy bear needs to be given to her so she can hold something as she leaves. I always remind birth mothers, in open adoption, it is not good-bye, it is see you later.

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Birth Mother Matters S4, Ep225; Birthfather Involvement in the Adoption Process

Birth Mother Matters S4, Ep225; Birthfather Involvement in the Adoption Process

Birth Mother Matters In Adoption Podcast Season 4, Episode 225; Birthfather Involvement in the Adoption Process Learn about Birth Fathers and their involvement in the adoption process.  Understand the adoption process and procedures about notifying a birth father about an adoption plan. Learn everything about adoption!  Listen now.

22 Jan 21min

Birth Mother Matters Adoption S4, Ep224; We're Back

Birth Mother Matters Adoption S4, Ep224; We're Back

Birth Mother Matters Adoption S4, Ep224; We're Back Adoption Podcast Episode resuming our Adoption Podcast discussing related information and news about Domestic, International, and Foster Care Adoption.

17 Jan 16min

Birth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep223; "Not Alone" Domestic Violence Awareness

Birth Mother Matters Adoption S3, Ep223; "Not Alone" Domestic Violence Awareness

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 223; "Not Alone" Domestic Violence Awareness Month.  Both men and eomen can be victims of domestic violence.   The U.S. Office on Violence Against Women defines domestic violence as "a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone." Domestic Violence Hotline- 1-800-799-7233.  (If you are located in Arizona, you can also call 602-542-0435.)

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 222; Birth Mother Common Concerns

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 222; Birth Mother Common Concerns

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 222; Birth Mother Common Concerns  Facing an unplanned pregnancy can elicit a myriad of emotions.  Adoption is a beautiful choice but you may have some concerns about the process.  Listen and learn all about these concerns and how we can help. Remember that its normal to have concerns about any decision you are making, especially if you are new to the idea of something.  An adoption agency, like Building Arizona Families understands that you have concerns and we are here to help you address and remedy your conerns.   Listen.  Learn.  Love.

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Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 221; Adoption News and Updates

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 221; Adoption News and Updates

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Ep 221; Adoption News and Updates News Matters- On June 15, 2023, the Supreme Court upheld the circuit court's conclusion that Congress' power to legislate Indian affairs is well-established and broad; therefore, the ICWA “is consistent with Congress' power under Article I of the Constitution.”  Update Matters-  Learn about the latest adoption trends and what has changed.

4 Aug 202314min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 220; Growing Up Adopted

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 220; Growing Up Adopted

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 220; Growing Up Adopted Listen to Co-Host Kelly Rourke-Scarry as she discusses what it was like to grow up as an adoptee in the 1970s and 1980s.  Learn about the differences between then and now, how these changes are for the better and why it was so important for the changes to occur.  Learn more about adoption from the "Adoptee Angle" of the Adoption Triad.  Spread Adoption Awareness. Listen.  Learn.  Love.  Adoption.

26 Feb 202319min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 219; Substance Use During Pregnancy

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 219; Substance Use During Pregnancy

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Episode 3-219 Substance Use During Pregnancy Some pregnant women use drugs during their pregnancy.  Drug exposure prenatally in adoption situations may cause concern and anxiety for hopeful adoptive parents.  Learning more will help us understand and be able to make well-informed decisions. Every year, at least once on this podcast we like to look at the current research and dicuss any changes we have seen over the past year.  We are not a medical facility, nor are we medical professionals, so this podcast is to discuss the available research and what we have seen as professionals in the adoption world. Listen.  Learn.  Love.

1 Feb 202328min

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 218; A Difficult First Step

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption S3, Ep 218; A Difficult First Step

Birth Mother Matters in Adoption Season 3, Episode 218; A Difficult First Step  Building Arizona Families and AZ Pregnancy Help is an Adoption Agency in Arizona.  We are an adoption center where we help build families.  When pregnat women contact us and want to make an adoption plan, we understand that the first meeting can be a very emotional step.  Since we are a private adoption agency, we go the extra mile to make our new clients feel as supported as possible. Our adoption office is located in Phoenix, Arizona.  We are located off of a major highway and we take pride that in our office we have a non-perishable food pantry and a maternity clothing closet.  Our goal is to be a resource for women making an adoption plan.   Listen.  Learn.  Love.

27 Jan 202317min

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