058:  Parenting Real Talk: The Best & Hardest Parts of Being a Dad with Hector Santiesteban

058: Parenting Real Talk: The Best & Hardest Parts of Being a Dad with Hector Santiesteban

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Hector Santiesteban, a father, husband, podcast strategist and growth consultant, and host of The Modern Masculinity Podcast. Listen in as Hector and I discuss some of the most pressing challenges and opportunities we have as men, fathers, and change-makers.

Hector gives insight into how you can undo generational trauma by intentionally crafting your child's view of the world. He speaks on how to not lose yourself in parenting and how to be in service of others while chasing fulfillment instead of accolades.

"We have the opportunity to create direction or structure or to provide those lessons… if we so choose to take the opportunity to be present in the moment."

– Hector Santiesteban

Hector leaves you with this bit of wisdom: Chase your own while cultivating that of others.

Key Takeaways / What You'll Learn:

[00:44] About Hector Santiesteban.

[03:23] Men thrive in being in service of others, but be intentional with what you wish for…

[08:33] Why don't men talk about their struggles?

[13:15] Hector's traumatic experience becoming a dad & Lessons he's learning from fatherhood.

[23:37] Teach your kids the things you never knew instead of giving them what you never had.

[33:16] Parenting is not for you, it's for the world.

[35:42] Your purpose should be connected to something external.

[41:14] How to connect with Hector.

[43:17] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?

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Resources Mentioned:

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Listen to the Modern Masculinity Podcast: https://modern-masculinity.captivate.fm

Connect with Hector Santiesteban:

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