43. The Observer

What’s possible when you change your approach to quitting pornography? Quinn’s story shows that no matter how long you’ve struggled, you can break free. After 50 years of battling his habit, Quinn fou...

30 Mar 27min

What story are you telling yourself about your porn habit? In this episode, I dive into the crucial difference between facts and the stories we tell ourselves and how your story can either keep you st...

23 Mar 18min

Have you been trying to quit pornography by fighting it? Many people approach this process like a battle, trying to resist urges, push them away, or overpower them with discipline and willpower. But w...

16 Mar 16min

What do you do when you feel completely stuck and don’t know how to move forward? In this episode, Coach Kat Jenkins shares a simple framework to help you break out of that feeling, get unstuck, and s...

9 Mar 10min

What happens when you stop trying to hate yourself into change and learn how to work with your mind instead? In this episode, I revisit a conversation with Cannon to talk about his journey from years ...

2 Mar 25min

Are you constantly trying to control your sexual urges by building stronger fences, adding more rules, or relying on willpower? If so, you might be stuck in the exhausting cycle of resisting, giving i...

23 Feb 14min

Why do urges seem to disappear, only to come right back? If you’ve ever processed an urge and then felt discouraged when it returned, this episode will help you understand what’s really happening. I’m...

16 Feb 23min

Are you tired of feeling stuck in the same thought loops that seem to run on repeat, no matter what you do? Many of the thoughts that cause distress or lead you back to old habits aren’t actually prob...

9 Feb 17min