138. Meet Brian and Vanessa - Recovery, Injections, Lymphedema, and 2-3 Rounds

138. Meet Brian and Vanessa - Recovery, Injections, Lymphedema, and 2-3 Rounds

Brian had his prostate surgery in September 2021 and his recovery went pretty smoothly. He only needed to wear pads for a couple of weeks. Surprisingly, he decided to try his first injection less than four weeks after the surgery. The sight of the tools was frightful, but hey, the results were pretty, pretty, good! The only downside was feeling a bit uncomfortable while driving on the freeway.

Come March, Brian met Vanessa and faced the challenge of navigating a new relationship after prostate surgery. However, they had the necessary conversation about Brian's circumstance, and their relationship flourished.

Brian didn’t have a super smooth journey though since in the middle of his newfound romance was the occurrence of lymphedema. However, with a great mindset and a trusting partner, he was able to overcome it - by using bandages.

Brian emphasises the importance of having that difficult first conversation about prostate cancer with a partner. He believes that without having that conversation, nothing will progress, and encourages others to openly discuss their experiences.

This is an inspiring story about finding love despite being a bit floppy!

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Episoder(217)

217: The Partner Perspective After Prostate Cancer: Carlotta Thomas on Love, Communication and Intimacy

217: The Partner Perspective After Prostate Cancer: Carlotta Thomas on Love, Communication and Intimacy

Host: Melissa Hadley Barrett   Guest: Carlotta Thomas   Category: Partner Support | Prostate Cancer | Intimacy and Sexuality | Penile Rehabilitation   Episode Summary: Prostate cancer does not just a...

24 Mar 48min

216: Penile Fillers, HoleTox & The Art of Male Aesthetics with Injector Chris (Lushful Aesthetics)

216: Penile Fillers, HoleTox & The Art of Male Aesthetics with Injector Chris (Lushful Aesthetics)

In this eye-opening episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa chats with Chris Bustamante—better known online as Injector Chris — a New York and San Diego–based Nurse Practitioner who has become o...

10 Mar 1h 11min

215: Intimacy, Embodiment & Becoming the One: A Conversation with Allana Pratt

215: Intimacy, Embodiment & Becoming the One: A Conversation with Allana Pratt

In this episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa is joined by internationally recognised intimacy expert and relationship coach Allana Pratt for a wide-ranging conversation about emotional healin...

24 Feb 59min

214: When Prostate Cancer Affects the Partner: Rachel’s Story of Intimacy, Grief & Connection

214: When Prostate Cancer Affects the Partner: Rachel’s Story of Intimacy, Grief & Connection

In this an honest and emotional episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa and Kate shift the spotlight to a voice that is far too often missing in prostate cancer conversations — the partner.  Rac...

10 Feb 57min

213: Swinging, Connection & Consent (with “George & Mildred” + Guest Host Kira)

213: Swinging, Connection & Consent (with “George & Mildred” + Guest Host Kira)

In this candid and surprising episode, Melissa is joined by guest host Kira and anonymous guests “George and Mildred” for a deep dive into their relationship story, how menopause and erectile dysfunct...

27 Jan 1h

212: Never Mind My Bollocks: Talking Vasectomy, Masculinity & Myths

212: Never Mind My Bollocks: Talking Vasectomy, Masculinity & Myths

Let’s talk bollocks — literally. In this candid and funny episode of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa chats with Kurt Brookes and James McConnell, co-hosts of the bold new podcast Never Mind My Boll...

13 Jan 48min

211 - Talking About Sex Shouldn’t Be Taboo – A Global Perspective with Sangeeth Sebastian

211 - Talking About Sex Shouldn’t Be Taboo – A Global Perspective with Sangeeth Sebastian

In this special episode of The Penis Project Podcast, the tables are turned — and Melissa Hadley Barrett is the one being interviewed!  Joining her is Sangeeth Sebastian, a journalist and sexuality wr...

30 Des 20251h 22min

210: Merry Christmas and wrap up for 2025

210: Merry Christmas and wrap up for 2025

In this special Christmas edition of The Penis Project Podcast, Melissa is joined by members of the Restorative Health Clinic team for a candid, funny, and surprisingly heartfelt look back at the year...

16 Des 202522min

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