Did You Know I'm A Pregnant Divorcee?
Chik Chat15 Feb 2024

Did You Know I'm A Pregnant Divorcee?

Did you know I’m a pregnant divorcee? Neither did I! 👀

Being a content creator/influencer opens you up to a lot of scrutiny from people that think they know you AND THEN there’s the other side of it where people make up actual lies about you.


I was recently targeted by a podcast bro (if you know, you know) and it reminded me of a few things:

  1. The internet can be a dangerous place
  2. It’s on us to be educated on topics and by that I mean read, use multiple sources, ask questions - don’t just believe what every Tom, Dick & Harry tells you (especially if they delete comments that don’t match their agenda)
  3. Don’t chase the dream of being a content creator if you don’t know yourself/haven’t done the work on being comfortable with who you are because it can affect your mental health so much
  4. Black women get hated on just for being happy so do you and ignore the haters
  5. My healing journey and soft life has bothered a man so much he felt the need to waste his life giving idiotic “relationship advice”
  6. I have the best community and have been reminded why I create the content I do


Whilst the internet can be a dangerous place, it also allows for people to transform their lives and I will always be an advocate for that. Myself and G actually started the Black And White Thinking podcast to show you can have a healthy and respectful debate without making up a load of crap so check that out and let us know if you want us to cover any specific topics.

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