2. I resented my sister over a set of highlighters
and I didn't die12 Mai 2025

2. I resented my sister over a set of highlighters

What starts as a story about missing highlighters quickly unfolds into something deeper... resentment, family dynamics, and the invisible pressure of being the eldest daughter

In this episode, I revisit a childhood moment that left me confused, silenced, and questioning right and wrong. I unpack how resentment shows up, why it’s often misunderstood, and what it actually has to teach us.

If you’ve ever held back your voice to keep the peace, or felt guilty just for having "bad" feelings, this one’s for you ♥️

I'd love to hear your version of a highlighter story! Leave a comment or send me a DM on ⁠Instagram⁠ / ⁠LinkedIn⁠.

--

Topics: eldest daughter, resentment, family dynamics, asian mom, self-leadership, being seen, big feelings, eldest daughters, AAPI, AANHPI

Episoder(41)

voice note #1: stillness feels unsafe, boredom feels like a threat

voice note #1: stillness feels unsafe, boredom feels like a threat

In this first voice note, I share how doomscrolling until 3 a.m. was a tough reminder on the importance of stillness and boredom.I normally enjoy calm and quiet, but the more helpless and hopeless I f...

30 Jun 202510min

6. I traveled to the desert to meet an Internet friend

6. I traveled to the desert to meet an Internet friend

Making new friends as an adult can feel risky, emotionally and physically. What if it’s awkward? What if you don’t click? What if they kidnap you in the desert?But also what if it all goes right? In t...

16 Jun 202512min

5. I used an app to get dinner with 5 strangers on a Wednesday night

5. I used an app to get dinner with 5 strangers on a Wednesday night

Making new friends as an adult can feel awkward, intimidating, and sometimes downright impossible. But it doesn't have to be.In this episode, I share how I used my own framework to make friends as an ...

9 Jun 202519min

Bonus. The valedictorian speech I talk about in episode 3

Bonus. The valedictorian speech I talk about in episode 3

This is as straightforward as it gets. You asked for the speech, and here it is! With some unscripted commentary ;)Ahh this is literally from the archives of my life since I wrote and delivered it lik...

2 Jun 20257min

4.  I told my mom to get help from a therapist instead of me

4.  I told my mom to get help from a therapist instead of me

I was elbow deep in Dungeness crab, and I hadn’t planned to say it, but I did. I told my mom to seek the help of a therapist instead of venting to me. And thankfully, none of my worst fears came true....

26 Mai 202513min

3. I sarcastically named my valedictorian speech "Fortune Cookie"

3. I sarcastically named my valedictorian speech "Fortune Cookie"

I thought becoming valedictorian would feel like a win. Instead, it felt like a quiet defeat, involving an unchosen rivalry with a white boy, a speech I didn’t want to give, and an achievement that cr...

19 Mai 202515min

1. I rebranded my podcast, and I didn't die

1. I rebranded my podcast, and I didn't die

After two years of Ask an Introvert, I did something that scared the sh*t out of me... I rebranded the podcast.In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of why I changed the name and how and I did...

5 Mai 20259min

Populært innen Fakta

fastlegen
dine-penger-pengeradet
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
treningspodden
foreldreradet
merry-quizmas
dopet
jakt-og-fiskepodden
rss-sunn-okonomi
podme-bio-3
rss-strid-de-norske-borgerkrigene
hverdagspsyken
sovnlos
rss-kull
sinnsyn
gravid-uke-for-uke
tomprat-med-gunnar-tjomlid
rss-var-forste-kaffe
dypdykk
rss-kunsten-a-leve