Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft

Why I Love to Be F**ked Soft

I’ve connected as deeply with my partners in a wild, intense, thrash of an encounter as we have in hours-long micro-movements.


Slow. Soft.


Maybe even more deeply in the softness.


So many people rush through penetration. The average sexual encounter is—actually the majority of them—are under 10 minutes.


ANYONE rushing through sex is afraid of going deep. Of really connecting and being seen.


In slower, softer sex, there is no hiding. You reveal—and your partner sees—every millimeter, every cell of you.


It’s like being split open and every dark nook and cranny of your being is exposed to the most radiant, healing light.


These multi-hour experiences have been some of the most powerful of my life.


Hours go by like minutes. Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored. We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions.


It’s interstellar sex.


And I’ll tell you all about what that’s like for me in today’s episode.







A soft fuck is usually by default a slow fuck.


A soft and slow fuck expands time.


Nothing is rushed. Everything is savored.

Hours go by like minutes.


We enter into a trance and connect in multiple dimensions.


It’s interstellar sex.







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