We have mixed feelings on Lea… | The Bachelor recap: Joey’s season, episodes 4 & 5

We were rooting for you, Lea!!! Why?!

This week’s two-day Bachelor special brought the demise of one villain and the rise of the next. Maria and Sydney went head to head in a two on one date, and we were disturbed and also just kinda saddened by Sydney’s behavior before she left. Then we get into the Lea of it all, including her squishy confrontation with Madina, her hard line with Maria, and why we’re both disappointed in her… but also sort of question the nature of the criticism she’s now facing.

Along the way, we talk about the ways in which therapy can fail us, how age can affect the ways we show up to disagreements, and the importance of taking women’s pain seriously.

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