Gay Mens Guide To Working the Room Without Working Too Hard – with Rob Giardinelli

Gay Mens Guide To Working the Room Without Working Too Hard – with Rob Giardinelli

In this episode I’m joined by keynote speaker and workshop leader Rob Giardinelli to unpack the real reason so many of us as gay men fumble in rooms (not back rooms) full of people, and how to flip that script without turning into someone you’re not.

Whether it’s a networking mixer, a conference, or that awkward social gay happy hour—you’ll walk away with real tools to show up with more confidence and connection (without needing to become a social butterfly or the loudest queen in the room).

We dive into:

  • Why finding the “activation points” (think photo booths and icebreakers) is a connection superpower

  • How to exit awkward convos like a pro (ahem… “just gonna refresh my drink”)

  • The magic of being interested, not just interesting

  • Tips for introverts and extroverts to feel seen and included

  • How presence, intention, and a little bit of courage go a long way


If you're ready to stop performing and start actually connecting—this one's for you.

About Rob

Rob Giardinelli is an introvert who helps client-facing professionals go from nervous to confident at in-person events to grow their sales and develop deeper relationships.

Over the past 15 years, Rob has attended more than 2,000 events—many hosted by the world’s top entertainers—while serving as COO of several luxury lifestyle publications. Before that, he spent 16 years in the tech world leading national and global sales and brand strategy efforts.

Rob now delivers keynotes and workshops to equip introverts and extroverts the tools to walk into any business, social, or networking event with confidence and a sense of purpose.

Connect With Rob Website Instagram LinkedIn Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

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