Let's Talk More About Findom | S05E06
BDSM Reimagined1 Sep 2025

Let's Talk More About Findom | S05E06

In this episode, Indy grapples with her decision to start charging for her dominant services, a shift prompted by the realisation that men have been viewing her sessions as "freebies." While her first paid encounter feels powerful, it also brings a profound sense of moral unease. She questions the ethics of financial domination and worries about the potential for it to corrupt her personality, fearing she might become arrogant or narcissistic. Her exploration of this new path seems to be driven by a place of resentment and a feeling of having been used in the past.

Michael offers a contrasting, more experienced viewpoint. He empathises with Indy's moral conflict but frames his own involvement in financial domination as a positive "alpha trajectory"—a valid exploration of a confident part of himself. He counters the fear of negative personal change by explaining that this persona is just one integrated facet of his already well-rounded identity, kept in check by his career, friendships, and therapy. For Michael, charging is a practical tool for managing demand and maintaining healthy boundaries, presenting the findom world as a more direct and rewarding alternative to the frustrations of conventional dating.


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