Jamie Laing on fatherhood, family, loneliness, and male body image
Happy Place20 Okt 2025

Jamie Laing on fatherhood, family, loneliness, and male body image

Broadcaster and entrepreneur Jamie Laing had big fears about having kids... and yet he’s about to become a dad any day now.


In this chat with Fearne, Jamie’s honest about the pros and cons he deliberated over before deciding to have children. He talks through how his parents’ divorce expanded his world in beautiful ways, as well as why he chose to re-kindle his relationship with his dad as an adult.


Jamie also talks for the first time about his body image and eating disorder. Given Fearne has been through her own experience of bulimia, Jamie looks to her for advice on how to break free from the shame that’s gripped him for much of his life.


Jamie can now say he genuinely likes himself, but explains how throughout his teens and twenties he felt a real need to be popular, liked, and validated by others. How did he learn to cultivate self-compassion in his thirties? And what does he reckon is the best way to get men to open up to their mates?


Jamie’s book, Boys Don’t Cry, is out now.


If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like:


Erling Kagge


Emily English


Ben West

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episoder(417)

Book Club Meets: Grief, women in history, and Elizabethan magic, with Maggie O’Farrell

Book Club Meets: Grief, women in history, and Elizabethan magic, with Maggie O’Farrell

You might have recently seen Hamnet at the cinema, but did you read the book along with the Happy Place Book Club in January?In this chat, Fearne and author Maggie O’Farrell talk about how Jessie Buck...

5 Feb 29min

Sam Claflin: I calorie count and overthink! What is body dysmorphia?

Sam Claflin: I calorie count and overthink! What is body dysmorphia?

Do you find it hard to look in the mirror? Have you found yourself controlling what you eat or exercise you do? Actor Sam Claflin has struggled with his body image since he was a child.In this chat wi...

2 Feb 1h 2min

Fearne says hello to intuitive exercise and goodbye to people pleasing

Fearne says hello to intuitive exercise and goodbye to people pleasing

There’s a bit too much pressure on reaching an unwavering state of happiness isn’t there? It’s just not realistic. So Fearne’s going to be dropping into your feed every week for some candid nattering ...

29 Jan 17min

Louise Thompson: Maternity care is bleak! Mental and physical scars of my traumatic birth

Louise Thompson: Maternity care is bleak! Mental and physical scars of my traumatic birth

Everyone deserves a safe and dignified birth, but when Louise Thompson gave birth to son Leo, she was left with post-traumatic stress disorder.In this chat with Fearne, Louise talks through how her PT...

26 Jan 57min

Ant and Dec: I’d choose fatherhood over TV! Practicing gratitude and honouring growth

Ant and Dec: I’d choose fatherhood over TV! Practicing gratitude and honouring growth

Struggling to know if you’ve achieved enough? If you’re happy enough? Worry everything you’ve built could fall apart? Even national treasures Ant and Dec don’t feel like they’ve ‘made it’.In this chat...

19 Jan 55min

Sonia Choquette: “I’m having telepathic experiences!” Listen to your intuition

Sonia Choquette: “I’m having telepathic experiences!” Listen to your intuition

What would you do if you weren’t afraid? That’s the question spiritual teacher and intuitive guide Sonia Choquette wants you to think about.In this chat with Fearne, Sonia explains how to have more ag...

12 Jan 1h 1min

Overthinking is my demon! Erin Doherty on changing old behaviour patterns

Overthinking is my demon! Erin Doherty on changing old behaviour patterns

Do you constantly replay conversations, wondering if you said the wrong thing? You’re in good company; actor Erin Doherty’s biggest demon is overthinking.In this chat, Fearne and Erin explore how fear...

5 Jan 45min

Book Club Meets: I could have been radicalised! ISIS brides and teen angst, with Nussaibah Younis

Book Club Meets: I could have been radicalised! ISIS brides and teen angst, with Nussaibah Younis

Fundamentally tells the story of Nadia, an academic who's been disowned by her puritanical mother and dumped by her lover, so she decides to get away by accepting a UN job in Iraq.Meanwhile, Sara is a...

2 Jan 40min

Populært innen Samfunn

rss-spartsklubben
giver-og-gjengen-vg
aftenpodden
aftenpodden-usa
konspirasjonspodden
alt-fortalt
rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
popradet
rss-henlagt-andy-larsgaard
wolfgang-wee-uncut
grenselos
synnve-og-vanessa
frokostshowet-pa-p5
fladseth
min-barneoppdragelse
rss-dannet-uten-piano
rss-dette-ma-aldri-skje-igjen
rss-frekvens-med-anine-olsen
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
198-land-med-einar-trnquist