Sharay Hayes: Why Older Rich Men Secretly Hire Younger Guys for Their Wives | DSH #1690

Male sexuality, anxiety, performance issues, older men hiring younger men for their partners, the Diddy/Cassie scandal, the court system, and what REALLY goes on behind closed doors — Sharay Punisher Hayes breaks down everything with raw honesty, no filters, and decades of experience in a world most men will never see.

From 30 years as a male entertainer, to being unexpectedly pulled into one of the biggest celebrity trials of this decade, to solving his own ED issues without pills, to understanding the psychology of anxiety, aging, testosterone, and men’s hidden fears — this episode goes deeper than any mainstream conversation about men, sex, masculinity, and mental performance.

📚 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

🧠 How anxiety creates ED even when your body is fine

💊 Why pills fail when cortisol spikes

🔥 How free testosterone affects libido more than total testosterone

🕒 Why older wealthy men outsource sexual performance

👀 Rare insight into hidden sexual dynamics at the elite level

⚖️ How his testimony shifted the narrative in the Diddy trial

📉 The psychological pressure men face when performing with women

🧬 How hormones, diet, fasting, and SHBG ruin sex drive

📹 Why high-profile men need to document every encounter

💪 How men can rebuild confidence without pills or surgery

CHAPTERS

0:00 – Why some older men hire younger men for their partners

1:10 – Sharay Hayes explains the real reason he wrote his book

2:03 – ED is 50% mental: anxiety, cortisol, and performance pressure

3:10 – Pills vs. psychology: why most men are treating the wrong problem

4:45 – Total testosterone vs. free testosterone: the real libido marker

6:20 – Diet, fasting, hormones, and SHBG: silent killers of male drive

8:35 – Pressure from being a male stripper & how it destroys confidence

12:00 – The environment of male entertainment & inflated male ego

16:00 – Inside the Diddy/Cassie encounter and how Sharay was involved

29:00 – Male safety, recording encounters & the new reality for men

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🔑 KEYWORDS

male performance anxiety, ED mental causes, Sharay Hayes interview, The Punisher stripper, Diddy trial witness, Cassie lawsuit truth, men testosterone free vs total, cortisol ED, male sexuality psychology, elite sex dynamics

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