Did the Narcissist Ever Love Me? (Object Constancy Explained)

Did the Narcissist Ever Love Me? (Object Constancy Explained)

"Was it all a lie? Did I ever actually matter?" In one of his most requested deep-dives, Lee Hammock answers the question that keeps every survivor awake at night. Discover the difference between being "loved" and being "useful," and learn how a narcissist’s lack of object constancy allows them to discard you without a second thought. This is the closure you’ve been looking for.

Key Topics:

  • Why you mattered as a "Tool," not a "Person"

  • The science of Object Constancy in Narcissism

  • Why they don’t mourn the relationship like you do

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