117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk about choosing family over constant movement, how simplifying life has changed my relationship to desire and sexuality, and why prioritizing both quality and quantity time with children feels radically countercultural.

We explore the grief and surrender that come with big life transitions, the myth of “having it all,” and how motherhood reshaped my values, attachment patterns, and sense of self. This episode is an honest look at choosing a slower, more rooted life—and finding pleasure, intimacy, and aliveness inside it.

In this episode:

  • Turning 40 and living in the “messy middle” without a home

  • Stress, caffeine, and how they affect mood, libido, and arousal

  • Roots, family, and community as nervous system support

  • Motherhood as identity shift—and choosing a slower, simpler life

  • Quality + quantity time with kids, and why it feels countercultural

  • Letting go of “having it all” while still staying connected to desire

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118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relation...

17 Mars 24min

116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

116: Q&A - fantasy, self-touch, and body signals

In this episode, I answer three honest and intimate questions from my community about mental arousal and fantasy, shame or disgust around self-touch, and burning or sensitivity at the vaginal entrance...

17 Feb 24min

115: life updates + my season of expansion

115: life updates + my season of expansion

In this episode, I drop in with an honest life update after a long pause from the podcast. I share what the past months have really been like behind the scenes—sleep deprivation, sickness, moving home...

4 Feb 24min

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

114: Q&A - arousal drop after Clit Os, disgust when touching yourself, and getting back into intimacy after 10 months

In this episode, I answer three powerful questions from my community about orgasms, disgust in self-touch, and how to find your way back to sex after a long dry spell in a relationship. We explore the...

11 Dec 202534min

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

113: Are you a teen or a woman in the bedroom?

In this episode, I unpack a powerful question from a listener who shared that while she’s a fully capable adult woman in every area of life (career, motherhood, friendship, creativity), but her sexual...

4 Dec 202538min

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

112: Sluttiness, eros, erotic expression & freedom, maturing into adult sexual womanhood and SLUT power

In this episode, I share what it means to step fully into your slut era inside a committed relationship (or in singlehood). I talk about why this energy is so powerful, how it revived my own desire, a...

1 Dec 202528min

111: Flirting, feeling confident, masculine women, sexual growth in a relationship

111: Flirting, feeling confident, masculine women, sexual growth in a relationship

In this episode, I answer my student's question about embracing your sensuality and navigating the shift within a committed partnership. I explore how to handle new attention from others, soften old “...

26 Nov 202533min

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