When Dad is neurodivergent

In this episode, Mike and Phil, both mental health nurses and late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD, join Catherine Asta to explore their experiences of fatherhood. They speak about feeling unseen in schools and workplaces, confronting internalised rejection and navigating the expectations placed on fathers about how they ‘should’ show up. Through their own personal reflections, they share the journey of self-discovery that followed their diagnoses alongside their children, and the importance of finding community along the way.

At the heart of this conversation is the creation of NADS (Neuroaffirming Dads and Dudes) a local peer support space created by Mike designed specifically for neurodivergent fathers. Mike and Phil discuss how spaces like these allow men to show up as their authentic selves, build connection and transform shame and isolation into strength and solidarity.

In this episode we explore:

- The challenges they have both faced in parenting, workplaces, and the SEND space.

- How societal expectations and stigma can impact fathers navigating autism and ADHD.

- The unique strengths neurodivergence brings to their parenting.

- Why peer support spaces can be life-changing for fathers.

- Tips for dads who want to get more involved in the SEND space.

- Practical ways schools, services, and workplaces can better support neurodivergent dads and families.

Listener Care:

The views shared are personal perspectives from the guests based on their lived experiences. Their reflections highlight some of the barriers they have faced when engaging with schools and support spaces. Along with practical things that dads can do to become more involved in the SEND space, while also recognising the important role many mums and carers already play in advocating for their children. We recognise that many families and professionals are working hard to support children with SEND and that experiences may vary widely. We invite listeners to approach this conversation with curiosity and care.

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