(Rewind): If Your Ex Moved On Too Fast, WATCH THIS!
Breakups are incredibly hard. And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while you’re still healing. It can leave you with all kinds of painful questions like: “Why wasn’t I good enough?” “What does that person have that I don’t have?” “Have I lost the love of my life to someone else?” It’s one of the worst types of pain there is. And if we don’t learn the right lessons from our breakup, it can create baggage in the form of insecurities and an unwillingness to open up to someone new. (Risking your chance to find real, lasting love.) But closure can come faster than you expect with a simple shift in the way you choose to think about your ex, and yourself. I’m sharing this powerful shift with you today. If there’s anything I want you to take from this video, it’s that while what you’re going through is hard, it’s also an opportunity. A chance to let go of someone who couldn’t see your value, so that you can make space for a man who can. If someone doesn’t choose you, they cannot be right for you. Period. There’s someone better on the other side of all this. I promise. Today’s video was inspired by a brave male audience member who was devastated when his girlfriend of 5 years moved on only four months after their breakup. Not only will you learn something from the response I give him, but you'll also get insight into how men process pain. Spoiler alert… we ain’t that different. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
11 Apr 9min
291: How to Flirt When You’re Not Confident
In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flirting. So many people feel stuck when it comes to creating chemistry, worrying they'll come off as desperate, awkward, or get rejected. This episode breaks down how to define “flirting” rather than just talking, and gives some simple-but-powerful ways to do it in early attraction. 🎯 Topics include: Why people often lose their flirtatious spark when they like someone too much The 4 most common flirting fears (based on poll results) The difference between platonic, desire, and love language How to flirt without being overly sexual or awkward What “people-pleasing” energy looks like and how it kills seduction Practical examples of flirtatious compliments that actually work The secret ingredient: Tension, contrast, and slowing down Plus, we have our regular segment “Steve’s Sleeves” with a fun game of Love Life Crew vs Matthew AI! 💬 Feeling stuck knowing what to say? Download our free guide: 9Texts.com → 9 ready-to-use messages that spark interest, build attraction, and move things forward. 📅 Want live coaching, Q&As, and a supportive dating community? Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com 📩 Have a question or want to send us your Matthew AI answers? Email: podcast@MatthewHussey.com
9 Apr 1h
(Matt Monday): The Psychology of Modern Men and The Relationship Recession
If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, it’s not just you. In today’s episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fueling the “relationship recession.” Drawing inspiration from the Netflix series Adolescence, we’ll dive into the disillusionment many men are facing, the frustrations women are experiencing, and the hidden dynamics making connection feel so elusive. From surprising stats to the subtle mindsets that sabotage us before love even begins, this video connects the dots. If you’ve ever wondered why someone amazing vanished after two dates—or why you might be pulling away yourself—this will explain what’s really going on and how to rise above it to create meaningful relationships. Let me know what you think! --- ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
7 Apr 25min
(Rewind): They’ve Pulled Away? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away? It feels awful. You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special. I’ve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in today’s new video, I’ll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you). --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
4 Apr 13min
290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time? We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide we’re ‘relationship material’. Topics Covered: What is the “3 Box Theory” of dating Can someone change the box they’re in—or are they stuck? Signs you’re being kept in the “casual” box and how to respond Why first impressions aren’t always final in attraction Emotional connection vs. chemistry: how to tell the difference Dating consistency, standards, and sexual boundaries How to communicate your relationship intentions without fear ►► Subscribe to my Brand New Love Life Podcast channel → @LoveLifePodcast ►► Ask Matthew AI for personalized advice: AskMH.com ►► Free training to go from casual to committed: GetCommitment.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com ►► Email us your thoughts at podcast@matthewhussey.com
2 Apr 1h
(Matt Monday): What Makes Men Ready for Commitment | Ft. Lewis Howes
Why do so many people struggle with the idea of commitment—even when they want love? What fears do you have to confront? And what does it really take to feel ready? In this conversation, I interview newly-married bestselling author and entrepreneur Lewis Howes about managing the “storms” of life, avoiding the self-doubt trap, and what it means to give your heart fully to a relationship. But we don’t stop there. We also get into money—why it’s so emotionally charged, and how unhealed financial wounds can quietly sabotage your dating life. There’s a lot of raw honesty in this conversation, and I hope it meets you where you are. --- ▼ Connect With Lewis Howes ▼ Get Lewis's NEW Book → http://lewishowes.com/moneyiga Website → http://lewishowes.com/ Instagram → @lewishowes TikTok → @lewishowes X → @lewishowes --- ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
1 Apr 2h 6min
(Rewind): How to Make Them CHASE YOU Without “Playing It Cool”
We’ve all been told that we should never come on too strong, and that playing it cool is the best way to get someone interested. But how much interest is the right amount to show in the early days of dating? If we show too much interest, we worry we’ll lose all our “power,” but if we show too little, they may not even realize we’re interested. In today’s Rewind episode, I share 5 tips on how to approach this in the early stages of dating so you can not only show the right amount of interest, but also encourage the same in the other person. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
28 Mars 18min
289: How To Overcome Your Biggest Dating Insecurities
In this episode, we dive deep into the biggest challenges people face in dating — from rejection and insecurity to feeling like the odds are stacked against you. Whether you feel stuck due to age, lack of experience, body image, or financial worries, this episode is packed with reframes, real-life listener questions, and practical mindset shifts to help you get out of your own way and start moving forward with confidence. PLUS: A special interview with Lewis Howes on handling overwhelm, emotional regulation, and why taking imperfect action is the key to growth in both life and love. ✨ Main topics covered: How to reframe limiting stories that are holding you back in dating Dating with insecurities around age, experience, weight, or finances Listener questions answered with real advice for building confidence How to stop pre-rejecting yourself and “take yes for an answer” Lewis Howes on emotional regulation, handling pressure, and showing up without perfection Fun “Instant Reframe” segment to turn common dating obstacles into positives 👉 Want help reframing what’s holding you back? Ask Matthew AI here: Askmh.com 🎟️ Grab your early bird tickets for the MH Retreat here: MHRetreat.com ——— 📩 Got a question or feedback? Email us at: podcast@matthewhussey.com 🎧 Subscribe for more weekly episodes and practical dating advice!
26 Mars 1h 17min
